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A Prayer about Living the Legacy We Want to Leave

A Prayer about Living the Legacy We Want to Leave

And walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.

Ephesians 5:2

Heavenly Father, 

In this world, 

the focus of leaving a legacy 

is often on making a name for ourselves. 

We ask you, 

by the mercies of Christ our Lord, 

to help us “walk in the way of love,” 

that we might become “models of goodness” (Titus 2:3, The MSG). 

Help us to throw off the sour smell of self-centeredness, 

to give ourselves up as “a fragrant offering and sacrifice to [you]” (Ephesians 5:2). Help us to live out our unique giftedness and passions 

in ways that draw others to inhale the fragrance of Christ. 

Draw us to repent quickly when we sin 

and to live lives 

characterized by seeking 

and granting forgiveness. 

Help us to inhale the pure, fresh air 

of our righteousness in Christ 

and to exhale the sweet scent of words 

that build up and encourage others. 

In this way, Lord, 

we will live lives that matter—

to you, and to others. 

In this way, 

we will live the legacy we want to leave.

In Jesus’ loving name. Amen.

Read Ephesians 5:1-2; Titus 2:1-8.

 

If you would like to read more about living the legacy we want to leave, I wrote about this topic recently at Numbering Your Days



Elizabeth Reynolds Turnage

Elizabeth Reynolds Turnage

author, life and legacy coach, speaker

A Prayer about Caring for Those Who Care for Others

A Prayer about Caring for Those Who Care for Others

“casting all your cares on him, because he cares about you” 1 Peter 5:7

Jesus, our Great High Priest,

Today we lift up 

pastors, priests, and ministry leaders 

who care for your people. 

We confess, 

we don’t think often enough 

about how what their days look like, 

these hard days of comforting the broken-hearted, 

of sitting with the doubts and denials of your goodness, 

of bearing the burdens of so very many. 

We don’t think often enough 

about how the devil prowls around like a ravenous beast, 

eager to destroy 

their faith, 

their marriages, 

their children, 

their health, 

their homes. 

Now, as we remember our ministry leaders, 

we lift them up by name [name your ministry leaders], 

praying that they would indeed 

“humble themselves under the mighty hand of God,” 

confessing their own weakness 

confessing their need for your help. 

We ask that they would cast their cares 

and worries 

and fears 

and frustrations 

onto your broad shoulders. 

We pray that they would experience 

your mercy 

and love 

and comfort 

and pleasure 

in this very moment. 

Give them relief, 

and make us the answer 

to some of their prayers.

Lord, bless those 

who bless you 

by blessing us 

with the hope of the gospel.

In your comforting name. Amen.

Read 1 Peter 5:6-8. 



Elizabeth Reynolds Turnage

Elizabeth Reynolds Turnage

author, life and legacy coach, speaker

A Prayer about the Aging Body

A Prayer about the Aging Body

If the tent that is our earthly home is destroyed, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens 2 Corinthians 5:1

Heavenly Father, 

Yesterday we prayed about finding hope in the losses of aging 

by keeping an eternal perspective. 

Today we acknowledge the reality 

that despite what our culture tries to tell us, 

our bodies are aging, 

every day, 

all the time. 

Again, the apostle Paul helps us 

by naming the reality of physical deterioration, 

calling our bodies “tents.” 

As a tentmaker, Paul knew well the frailty of tents. 

They were made by human hands, 

to be raised and lowered easily. 

They were subject to the terrors of storms 

and could not stand in the face of them. 

Such is the nature of our human body. 

It is vulnerable. It is wasting away.

And yet, Paul claims, there is reason for hope: 

“If the tent that is our earthly home is destroyed, 

we have a building from God, 

a house not made with hands, 

eternal in the heavens” (2 Cor. 5:1). 

One day we will receive our resurrection bodies, 

healed and whole. 

Immediately after death, 

we will “be away from the body 

and at home with the Lord” (2 Cor. 5:8), 

that is, separated from our earthly body. 

But when Jesus returns, “we shall all be changed. 

For this perishable body will put on the imperishable, 

and this mortal body will put on immortality” (1 Cor. 15:53). 

In that day, we will no longer groan 

with the aches and pains 

of a breaking body. 

In that day, we will no longer groan 

with the deeper sorrow 

of losing family and friends to death. 

In that day, we will see our hope fulfilled, 

the hope of living with you 

and worshiping you forever. 

How we long for that day. 

Come quickly, Lord Jesus.

Amen.

Read 2 Corinthians 5:1-10; 1 Corinthians 15:50-58.

*This prayer, like yesterday’s, was based on my article, An Eternal Perspective on the Losses of Aging



Elizabeth Reynolds Turnage

Elizabeth Reynolds Turnage

author, life and legacy coach, speaker

A Prayer about an Eternal Perspective on Aging

A Prayer about an Eternal Perspective on Aging

Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day 2 Cor. 4:16

Eternal Lord,

The Bible is clear about the losses of aging, 

but it also provides hope in the midst of these losses. 

The apostle Paul offers an eternal perspective 

that helps us live wisely and graciously as we age. 

He shares about the affliction he has experienced, 

saying that it has not crushed him (See 2 Cor. 4:8-9). 

He states bluntly the reality 

that our outer self is wasting away. 

And yet, he says, “our inner self is being renewed day by day.” 

Paul offers more hope in the midst of loss, 

“For this light momentary affliction 

is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory 

beyond all comparison…” (2 Cor. 4:17).  

We must see look through the lens of an eternal perspective 

to see our suffering as fleeting and insubstantial 

in comparison with the enduring weight and substance 

of eternal glory. 

We can picture a timeline 

extending from before the dawn of time to beyond its end. 

Eternal glory spans the entire length of the timeline, 

into eternity, 

while our afflictions occupy 

only brief, intermittent sectors. 

Our suffering molds us and refines us 

to reflect the very nature 

of our suffering and glorious Christ. 

Help us, Lord, 

to see all of the losses of this life 

through the lens of an eternal perspective: 

Help us to look beyond 

the light and momentary trials and troubles 

of this fallen world 

to the eternal welcome, beauty, and joy 

of heaven and the new heavens and new earth.

In the hope-full name of Jesus. Amen.

Read 2 Corinthians 4:8-18.

*This prayer based on my article: An Eternal Perspective on the Losses of Aging



Elizabeth Reynolds Turnage

Elizabeth Reynolds Turnage

author, life and legacy coach, speaker

A Prayer about Receiving Christ

A Prayer about Receiving Christ

Therefore, as you have received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him. Colossians 2:6

Precious Lord,

May we not rush past the first two clauses of this profound verse 

in our hurry to finish our daily Bible reading. 

First, let’s pause and ask, 

“Have we received Christ Jesus the Lord?” 

Have we been given this free gift 

and marveled at the wonder 

that we have been chosen as its recipient? 

Do we remember that you are a gift given to us by our Father, 

not because we deserved it or earned it 

but simply because of his abounding grace? 

Second, we should ask, “What is this gift we have received?” 

It is you, Christ, the “anointed One,” our King. 

It is you, Jesus, our Savior. 

It is you, our dear Lord, 

the one who rules over heaven and earth. 

What a treasure we have been given!  

What an honor to receive such a gift! 

When we have paused to consider the “unsearchable riches” 

we have received in you, 

then and only then, 

can we understand how to “walk in you.” 

To walk in you is to be filled by your Spirit, 

to be moved to action. 

We do not merely sit in our recliner, 

reveling in our gift. 

We live out of your riches in glory, 

knowing that we have all that we need 

because we have you. 

We act, believing what we have received, 

moving with confidence to tell others 

about the extraordinary gift 

of Christ Jesus our Lord.

In your beautiful name we pray. Amen.

Read Colossians 2:1-6. 



Elizabeth Reynolds Turnage

Elizabeth Reynolds Turnage

author, life and legacy coach, speaker

A Prayer about Finding Rest in Prayer

A Prayer about Finding Rest in Prayer

…and they found him and said to him, “Everyone is looking for you.” Mark 1:37 

Rest-giving Jesus,

Today we return to our theme 

of finding rest in an anxious world. 

As we witness what you did, 

empower us to do the same:

You rose very early in the morning, 

and you went “out to a desolate place,” 

and you prayed (Mark 1:35). 

Lord, one thing is clear — 

we need to find quiet. 

In order to find rest, 

we must be intentional 

about getting away from the noisy demands 

of our cell phones 

and our self-talk, 

our crying babies 

and our screaming inboxes. 

Why must we get quiet? 

Because if we do not, 

we cannot hear you singing 

your delight over us (Zephaniah 3:14-17). 

If we do not get quiet, 

we cannot “stay on purpose,” 

as Vanessa pointed out in her talk*. 

If we don’t get quiet, 

when people come to us with their demands, 

“Everyone is looking for you” 

(bosses, employees, 

friends, spouses, 

children, grandchildren….), 

we will puff up with pride and think, 

“Oh, how important I am!” 

But you did not puff up with pride 

when your disciples told you that. 

No, you “stayed on purpose,” 

and you refused to yield 

to someone else’s purpose for you 

that was not your God-given purpose. 

You said, “Let us go on to the next towns, 

that I may preach there also, 

for that is why I came out” (Mark 1:38). 

Precious Jesus, 

forgive us for getting distracted, 

for not listening to 

your voice, 

to the Father’s voice, 

to the Spirit’s voice. 

Forgive us for hearing the demands and applause of “everyone”

 and thinking we must do as they say. 

Help us in our desperate weakness 

to follow you, 

to do our Father’s will. 

In your praying name. Amen.

Read Mark 1:35-39. 

This prayer, like yesterday’s, was inspired by this talk given by Vanessa Hawkins.



Elizabeth Reynolds Turnage

Elizabeth Reynolds Turnage

author, life and legacy coach, speaker