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Managing Your Digital Legacy

Managing Your Digital Legacy

Hi Friends,

Did you know you have a digital legacy? I didn’t, not until recently. As I learn more about this, I’d love to hear from you: how many digital devices do you use? Do you have a good system for “de-cluttering” your phone, computer, or tablet? (I need one!)

My digital life…

On a typical day, after reading my well-worn hard copy of the Gospel Transformation Bible and praying, often by writing out prayers in a journal, I begin using devices. Around 7:00 a.m., I check the weather and email on my phone or iPad, and then I enter the password to my desktop computer and begin writing. Mid-morning, I take a walk and listen to music, an audiobook, or a podcast on my phone. At lunchtime, I check email on my laptop and after lunch, I go back to writing on my computer, sometimes reading books for study, either on my iPad or in hard copies. At night, I listen to soothing music and devotional reading on my phone, then read a book on my e-reader before bed. In case you weren’t counting, that’s five digital devices I use regularly throughout the day. Now, consider what is on those devices: weather, Bible, Target(!), devotional, podcasts, books, my writing, social media, online shopping, photos, bills set up to be paid automatically, etc. Oh, and I forgot to mention the hour my husband and I spend watching Netflix most nights. That makes six digital devices I use regularly.

That, my friends, is my digital legacy. As you can see, I have a large digital legacy, but until recently, it had never occurred to me to consider the assets contained in my various devices. When my father died in 2017, he left one digital device: his phone. He paid all of his bills by check or credit card, through snail mail. When my mother died in 2021, she left behind a laptop computer, a phone, and an e-reader. (She had a brand new iPad she had committed to learning to use in 2021). She paid some bills online and used online banking. She had very few documents on her computer and only about twenty photographs. Her digital legacy, compared to mine, was minimal and straightforward, because she had left me a Microsoft Word file with all of her passwords. 

Whether your digital legacy is smaller like my dad’s or even my mom’s or larger, like mine, it is something to begin addressing now. How do we identify and organize digital assets? Here are at least ten steps to consider. 

10 Steps to Identifying and Organizing Your Digital Legacy

 

1. Inventory all of your digital device:

phone, tablet, laptop, desktop, e-reader, TV, etc., including those you no longer use. (You may want to donate or discard any you no longer use or give instructions for doing so. Note whether you still have chargers for the unused devices.) 

2. Inventory the content on those devices:

Photos, notes, documents, recipes, journals, work life, etc. Note which of this content is stored in a “cloud” like iCloud, Google drive, etc.

Joincake offers these four guiding questions to decide what content to keep and what to discard 

“Who do I want to receive access to this information if I pass away? 

  • Is there anything I don’t want my loved ones to see?

  • Is there anything I’m saving that I don’t need?

  • What are my most important/cherished photos, music, etc. and how do I ensure they’re secure?”

3. De-clutter email inboxes:

Consider email with the questions above in mind. Most of us have inboxes full of store promotions. If you, like me, need to de-clutter your inbox, check out this article. It is from an app that wants to help you “clean” out your email (I don’t use this app but it looks good), but the tips are still very good, and within the article you will find links to articles for cleaning out email on Outlook and Gmail and Yahoo.

4. Consider work content:

Those of us who use our computers for work will want to leave clear instructions about what is there and who might need it. For example, I keep an Excel file with my income and expenses for my Living Story business. All of my writing lives on my computer. I am realizing I need to make sure my husband knows where to find crucial content.

5. Inventory your online financial accounts: 

Banking, finances, bill paying, budget trackers, any financial transactions you complete online. It’s essential that your appointed durable power of attorney and executor know how to access important files. If you pay your power bill online every month, your trusted person will need to know that and to have the password in order to continue paying the bill. 

6. List online medical accounts:

Many doctor’s offices and hospitals have moved toward electronic health records. These could be helpful in the case of incapacitation, and in case of death, your trustee will want to notify physicians to cancel the account.

7. Inventory and cancel unused subscription services:

Are you one of the two-thirds of people who do not use subscription services you signed up for? It happens to all of us (or most of us). We sign up for that free 30-day trial to a daily devotional, forget that we have it, and keep paying $3.99 a month for it. I have to admit, until someone mentioned subscriptions as part of our digital legacy, I didn’t know what online subscriptions I had or how much I was paying for them. 

Consider the following subscriptions:

  • TV subscription services like Netflix, Youtube, Discovery +, etc.

  • Online magazine, newspaper, newsletter

  • Apple Music or Spotify

  • Apps for your phone or tablet: games (Words with Friends, anyone?), devotionals, health apps, etc. 

If you, like me, aren’t sure how to find out which subscriptions you have on your phone or device, check out these articles on how to find and cancel subscriptions:

Apple users

Android/Google users

If you want to go a step further and keep track of how much you are spending on subscriptions, this article reviews apps that track your spending: https://www.cnbc.com/select/best-subscription-trackers/.

8. List all of your social media accounts:

 

Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, Twitter, TikTok, etc. Indicate whether you want trustees to download posts or photos before the accounts are closed. 

9. Note digital purchases, such as books and music:

 

When you purchase an e-book, you are purchasing the license to the book (the same is true of digital music), and the license expires when you do. Even so, many people have found they are able to use a deceased loved one’s e-reader to read books previously purchased. Because of licensing laws, you cannot transfer the license to a beneficiary. 

Along this line, see this article for information about how to add a legacy contact or to access a deceased person’s iCloud account. Before an iCloud account is deleted, you will need to make a backup of anything you want to save. 

Last but definitely not least

10. Record and share passwords with trustee for all devices and online accounts:

 

While you can record passwords in a password keeper book or in a file on your computer, if you have a lot of passwords, it may be best to consider using a password manager.

This article reviews the best password managers for 2023.

One day at a time…

Friends, it can be overwhelming to realize we have so many digital assets. I encourage you to start slowly and to schedule regular times to begin identifying and organizing your digital legacy. If you need someone to help you and to encourage you in the process, contact me. As a life and legacy coach, I love to help people find peace in living, preparing, and sharing their legacies.

How about you? Which of the above steps have you followed or would you like to follow to identify and organize your digital legacy? What would you add? 

A Prayer about Talking about Death and Dying

A Prayer about Talking about Death and Dying

The last enemy to be destroyed is death. 1 Corinthians 15:26

Gracious Father,

You know how deathly afraid we are of death. 

We ask for your grace and mercy 

to help us talk about death and dying, 

well before we have any inkling that we might die. 

We ask you to give us the words 

to talk about death and dying 

with friends and family members 

who are facing a terminal diagnosis. 

Help us to talk about things 

like advance directives, 

which help us to choose 

which aggressive medical measures 

we wish doctors to use 

when our bodies are shutting down 

and the hope for a cure is long past. 

Help us to educate ourselves 

on these medical measures like CPR 

which looks nothing in reality 

like it does on TV, 

or ventilators, 

which can prevent a dying person 

from uttering her last words to her loved ones. 

Help younger family members to not be frightened

when their parents want to discuss their wishes; 

help elder family members 

be willing to share their wishes 

with younger ones. 

Because our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ died 

and was raised from the dead 

that we might have forgiveness of sins 

and join him in eternal glory, 

give us the courage 

to prepare for glory 

by facing our mortality. 

In Jesus’ courageous name. Amen.

Read 1 Corinthians 15:26-28; Hebrews 2:8.

To have conversations about these topics, see The Conversation Project.

To listen to hospice worker and palliative care worker, Kelly Markham, LCSW, discuss these things, go here.



A Prayer about the Heavenly Potter’s Work

A Prayer about the Heavenly Potter’s Work

And the vessel he was making of clay was spoiled in the potter’s hand, and he reworked it into another vessel, as it seemed good to the potter to do. 

Jeremiah 18:4

Heavenly Potter, 

Let us not miss the beauty and truth 

of the vivid image you gave Jeremiah. 

You showed him your mercy and kindness 

and determination 

to continue to shape your people 

into lovely and purposeful 

instruments of your peace and grace. 

Not only did you form us from the womb 

with beauty and usefulness 

to display your glory (Jeremiah 1:5), 

as we are misshapen by sin, 

you work in us by the power of the Spirit 

to continue to conform us to the image of your Son, 

our Savior, Jesus Christ. 

Sometimes it takes being smushed up 

and thrown back on that potter’s wheel again, 

and that doesn’t usually feel good. 

But we can know that in all things, 

you are at work, 

graciously, lovingly, 

tenderly, and firmly 

refashioning our hearts (Romans 8:28). 

And we can look forward to the day 

that we will be like your Son, 

reflecting his radiance 

to you and to the broken world, 

as you created and designed us to do.

In Jesus’ shaping name. Amen. 

Read Jeremiah 18:1-12. 



A Prayer about Thanking God for Special People

A Prayer about Thanking God for Special People

On seeing them, Paul thanked God and took courage. Acts 28:15

Author God,

Since today is my husband’s birthday, 

and since people in Scripture 

often thank you for people you’ve blessed them with,

it seems fitting now 

to thank you for the people 

you have written into our stories:

Thank you for writing [my friend, my encourager, my supporter, my child, my boss…] 

into my story.

Thank you for the ways they have supported me…

[Name the ways this person has supported you].

Thank you for the ways they have helped me grow…

[Name the ways they helped you grow]

Thank you for the ways they have given me courage to do hard things…

[Name the ways they have given you courage…]

Thank you for the way they have comforted me when I was sad…

[Name the ways they have comforted you…]

Thank you for the ways they have cheered me on in exciting times…

[Name ways they have cheered you on…]

Thank you for —

[Name anything else you can think of.]

In the name of our most faithful friend, Jesus, we pray. Amen.

Read Acts 28:15; Romans 1:8; 1 Corinthians 1:4; 1 Thessalonians 3:9; Ephesians 1:16

 

Suggestion: Consider telling (or writing a note to) the person or people you prayed for what you prayed. It will encourage their hearts to know how God has worked in your life through theirs.


A Prayer about Radical Transformation

A Prayer about Radical Transformation

But Saul was ravaging the church, and entering house after house, he dragged off men and women and committed them to prison. Acts 8:3

Merciful God,

How good it is to read straight through the Bible 

because we return to radical redemption stories 

we might otherwise forget. 

This past week my reading took me back to this short paragraph 

about the persecution of the early church 

by a “Pharisee of Pharisees” 

who would soon become the apostle Paul, 

the man who wrote much of the New Testament. 

Show us through the true story of a man like Paul 

just how revolutionary the change in us, 

the change in others is, 

through the work of your Holy Spirit. 

A murderer becomes a missionary.

An addict becomes your adorer.

A grump becomes a gracious grandpa.

A sourpuss becomes a sweet servant.

Transforming Lord, 

give us a glimpse of what we might have become 

if we were not united with Christ 

so that we might have hope 

for those we might otherwise dismiss as hopeless. 

Show us the “Sauls” in our lives, 

that we may pray for them, 

that we may go to them, 

that they might have a life-changing encounter 

with Jesus. 

And while you’re at it, 

would you please give us a glimpse of the glory 

that awaits us 

when we see Jesus face to face 

and are truly made like him?

In Jesus’ transforming name. Amen.

Read Acts 8:1-3; Acts 9:1-31. 



A Prayer about Seeking Shalom in Places of Exile

A Prayer about Seeking Shalom in Places of Exile

But seek the welfare of the city where I have sent you into exile, and pray to the Lord on its behalf, for in its welfare you will find your welfare. Jeremiah 29:7

Redeeming God,

What a seemingly strange command. 

Your rebellious people 

have been exiled to Babylon, 

a pagan nation, 

and yet you instructed them 

to seek the welfare of the city, 

its shalom, its universal flourishing and wholeness.

In the same way, 

whether we live in a city or country 

we would never have chosen 

or an apartment with roommates we wished lived elsewhere 

or a neighborhood that has no people like us, 

you call us to seek the welfare 

of the places you have placed us. 

You work through us 

to bless every people 

with your peace and hope 

and beauty and truth, 

and one day your Holy City will move to us, 

and you will dwell with us, 

and we will know the future and the hope 

you have planned for us. 

Because of this truth, 

may we live and love today and every day

for the sake of our neighbors’ welfare.

In Jesus’ restoring name. Amen.

Read Jeremiah 29:4-14.