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A Prayer about How to Pray for Loved Ones

by | Sep 19, 2023 | Daily Prayer, Gospel living, Spiritual Growth

A Prayer about How to Pray for Loved Ones

I pray for you constantly,  asking God, the glorious Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, to give you spiritual wisdom and insight so that you might grow in your knowledge of God. Ephesians 1:16-17.

[Hi Friends, this is the first of two parts of praying Ephesians 1:15-23.]

Father of Glory,

Sometimes we don’t know how to pray for people I love, 

and then we remember that you’ve given us 

so many good prayers in your Word, 

like this one in Ephesians 1:15-23.

Today, we borrow these words 

to pray for our loved ones:

[try filling in the names of specific people in this prayer]

We thank you for [name] faith in Jesus Christ 

and [name’s] love for all of his people (Ephesians 1:15);

We ask you to give [name] 

the wisdom and insight 

that comes from our helper, the Holy Spirit

 and leads to a deep grasp

of God’s love for them (Ephesians 1:17),

We pray that the “eyes of [name’s] heart [would be] enlightened,” 

that is, that they would be empowered 

to understand and walk in the 

“confident hope you’ve given 

to those you’ve called” (Ephesians 1:18), 

and the immense wealth 

which is our “glorious inheritance” in Christ: 

riches like adoption of the Father, 

justification by faith, 

redemption from slavery to sin, 

and more, so much more!

In Jesus’ sacrificing name we ask.

Amen.

Read Ephesians 1:15-23.



A Prayer about Coming Alongside Caregivers

by | Sep 18, 2023 | Caregiving, Daily Prayer, Gospel living

A Prayer about Coming Alongside Caregivers

….four men arrived carrying a paralyzed man on a mat. They couldn’t bring him to Jesus because of the crowd, so they dug a hole through the roof above his head. Then they lowered the man on the mat, right down in front of Jesus.

Mark 2:4.

Gentle Jesus,

Bring to mind the people we know 

who are acting as caregivers to the sick or disabled in this season. 

They often find themselves 

paralyzed with guilt or grief, 

with confusion and exhaustion. 

Show us how we can be like the four friends to them, 

laying them on the mat 

and breaking through barriers 

to bring them before you. 

May we serve them in practical ways, 

cooking meals and doing yard work, 

helping them navigate the insurance maze, 

staying with their loved one 

so they can make doctor’s appointments 

or go for a walk. 

May we serve them 

by listening to them,

by encouraging them to lament,

and by praying for and with them 

when they can’t find the words to pray. 

Help us, Lord, to have the faith and kindness 

of the paralytic’s mat-friends 

to bring our caregiving friends before you 

to ask you to heal and help them. 

In your caring name. Amen.

Read Mark 2:1-5. 



A Prayer about the Wonder of Christ Praying for Us

by | Sep 17, 2023 | Daily Prayer, Gospel living, Spiritual Growth

A Prayer about the Wonder of Christ Praying for Us

Consequently, he is able to save to the uttermost those who draw near to God through him, since he always lives to make intercession for them. Hebrews 7:25

 Interceding Lord,

We are awed to think that you are our chief prayer warrior!

Scripture tells us that you are interceding on our behalf 

right now with the Father, 

presenting us as righteous in your righteousness, 

cleansed by your blood. 

If we wonder what kinds of things you pray on our behalf, 

we can look to the “high priestly prayer” in John 17, 

the prayer you prayed over all disciples 

just before you went to the cross. 

You prayed that we would have eternal life, 

and you said that eternal life consisted 

in knowing your Father as the one, true God, 

and you as the glorified Son (John 17:3). 

You prayed that we would know 

that we belong to you as your treasured bride (John 17:6; Ephesians 5:22).

You prayed that we would be protected from the evil one (John 17:15).

You prayed that we would overflow with your joy (John 17:13).

You prayed that we would be sanctified, set apart by your holiness (John 17:16-19).

You prayed that we would share our hope in you with the hurting world (John 17:18).

You prayed that we would be unified with one another by our union with you.

You prayed that we would glow with your glory in that unity (John 17:24).

You prayed that we would spill over with the love of the Father for the Son and the Father for his people, so that the world may know the kindness of the Father and the love of the Son (John 17:26).

Jesus, by your Spirit, 

we ask that you would embolden us to pray 

for others and ourselves 

as you pray for us, 

that we may live your gospel beauty 

before a watching world. 

In your praying name we ask.Amen.

Read John 17. 



A Prayer about Being a Son or Daughter of Encouragement

by | Sep 16, 2023 | Daily Prayer, Gospel living, Spiritual Growth

A Prayer about Being a Son or Daughter of Encouragement

Thus Joseph, who was also called by the apostles Barnabas (which means son of encouragement)…. Acts 4:36

Merciful God,

I confess that my nickname 

might be “daughter of critique” 

rather than “daughter of encouragement.” 

Help us, we pray, 

to be known as people who encourage, 

who praise and affirm others, 

who build others up. 

Throughout the Bible, 

we see your children 

affirming and encouraging others.*

Not only that, we see Jesus affirming others:

“You are the salt of the earth…” (Matt. 5:13).

“You are of more value than many sparrows” (Matt. 10:31).

Even a woman who is known for her sins, he praises, 

“Do you see this woman? I entered your house; you gave me no water for my feet, but she has wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You gave me no kiss, but from the time I came in she has not ceased to kiss my feet (Luke 7:44-45).

It is true, he critiques Simon, the Pharisee, 

who is judging him for allowing the sinful woman to touch him. 

We see that we are called to critique at times, 

wisely, patiently, mercifully, 

but the overwhelming pattern in Scripture 

is to encourage one another 

and build each other up” (1 Thess. 5:11).

Help us to look for the image of God in each person, 

whether they are believers or unbelievers. 

Help us to look for the image of God 

even in our enemies, 

people who have betrayed us. 

And by your Spirit, 

give us the words to praise what is praiseworthy, 

what reflects your goodness and glory, 

in everyone we meet.

In Jesus’ praising and praiseworthy name. Amen.

Read 1 Corinthians 1; Luke 7:36-50; 1 Thessalonians 5:11-15.

*This prayer inspired by the book, Practicing Affirmation: God-Centered Praise of Those Who Are Not God by Sam Crabtree. He gave these examples and many more of Jesus and others praising people.



A Prayer about Grieving an Approaching Death

by | Sep 15, 2023 | aging, dying, and death, Daily Prayer, Gospel living, Spiritual Growth

A Prayer about Grieving an Approaching Death

When the cares of my heart are many, your consolations cheer my soul.

Psalm 94:19

Everlasting Father,

Your word calls us to “rejoice with those who rejoice 

and weep with those who weep,” 

and today, we weep with those 

who watch and wait powerlessly 

as a loved one’s death day draws near. 

To the chaos of tubes and cords 

and beeps and hums 

of dim hospital rooms, 

we ask that you would bring 

stillness and peace.

To the fear of a loved one dying alone, 

we ask that you would bring 

the hope of Jesus’ welcome.

To the disappointment of a loved one dying 

in a way we would never wish, 

we ask that you would bring 

consolations that comfort.

Even as we raise these requests to you, 

we speak our grief: 

We are weary of sickness and pain.

We are weary of death and mourning. 

We are weary of saying good-bye.

We are weary of weeping.

In our grief, we speak our longing: 

How long oh Lord, 

until you return to give us resurrected bodies, 

whole and healthy?

How long oh Lord, 

until we behold the tree of life, 

with its healing leaves dancing in the wind?

How long oh Lord, 

until we see your face, 

and the night is no more? (See Revelation 22:1-5).

In our grief, 

may we hear your sure and certain promise,

“Behold, I am coming soon” (Revelation 22:7).

Read Psalm 94; Revelation 22. 



A Prayer about Forgiving Others

by | Sep 14, 2023 | Daily Prayer, Gospel living, Spiritual Growth

A Prayer about Forgiving Others

Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. Romans 12:21

Forgiving Lord,

Yesterday we prayed about believing in the forgiveness of sins, 

about really acknowledging the inexcusability of our own sin. 

Today, we pray about the complexity of forgiving others their sins. 

As C. S. Lewis pointed out, “Forgiving doesn’t mean excusing.”* 

So many times, we say, “But I can’t forgive that — 

they cheated me. 

They bullied me.

They abused me.” 

Exactly. 

They did something we are called to forgive. 

It is inexcusable. 

We don’t need to make excuses for what they did.**

We don’t need to say it was okay. 

We must forgive it. 

If a friend broke her promise, 

if a husband broke our hearts, 

if a boss broke our trust, 

we must forgive it. 

What does it mean to forgive? 

It is to look on their sin 

and name it for what it is, 

to pray to God 

that he will remove our resentment 

and our wish to make them pay. 

It is not necessarily to trust fully 

or to reconcile immediately 

or to restore relationship 

without the work of repentance and restoration. 

Father, you know we are utterly incapable 

of true forgiveness 

without the love and sacrifice of Christ 

working in and through us 

by your grace. 

Help us we pray 

to forgive those who sin against us. 

In the name of our forgiving Savior.

Amen

Read Romans 12: 17-21; 2 Corinthians 5:18; Colossians 3:13; Ephesians 4:32.

This prayer inspired by C.S. Lewis’s essay “On Forgiveness,” in The Weight of Glory and Other Essays

**As Lewis points out, we are also often better at making excuses for our own sin than we are for others.