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A Prayer about Missing People and Places at the Holidays

by | Nov 21, 2022 | aging, dying, and death, Daily Prayer, Death and Resurrection, Grief, legacy, Seasons & Holidays, Suffering, Thanksgiving

A Prayer about Missing People and Places at the Holidays

“My soul longs, yes, faints for the courts of the Lord; my heart and flesh sing for joy to the living God. Psalm 84:2

Gracious and Hospitable Lord,

As Thanksgiving comes around, 

our family misses my mom and her home. 

For many years, we visited her there, 

but her home now belongs to another; 

her new home is in heaven with you.

I know many face a similar sorrow. 

It will be their first holiday without their loved one. 

In a season when we may feel exiled from familiar places, 

draw our hearts to your ever-present 

and always abundant hospitality. 

You make homes for sparrows and nests for swallows (Psalm 84:3),

and you have invited us to be your sons and daughters. 

Even as we limp through the Valley of Weeping,

You make it a place of springs (Psalm 84:6), 

refreshing our hearts with your gentleness and joy.

When we tend to believe the lie that we are bereft, 

remind us that you are our “sun and shield,” 

bestowing “favor and honor”, 

assuring us, “No good thing 

do I withhold from those who walk uprightly” (Psalm 84:11).  

In the name of your Son, 

who came to walk this earth with us 

that we might live in heaven with you. 

Amen.

Read Psalm 84.

 

A Prayer about Lamenting Chronic Illness

by | Nov 18, 2022 | aging, dying, and death, Daily Prayer, Grief, Suffering

A Prayer about Lamenting Chronic Illness

For he has not despised or scorned the suffering of the afflicted one; he has not hidden his face from him but has listened to his cry for help. Psalm 22:24

 Good Father,

Today we lift up our friends 

who have searched and searched and searched,

 who have waited and waited and waited

…for health, for wholeness, for healing. 

We join in their lament 

using the words of David:

“My God, my God, 

why have you forsaken me? 

Why are you so far from saving me?”

[Don’t you hear my groaning?]

“O my God, I cry by day, 

but you do not answer, 

and by night, but I find no rest” (Ps. 22:2).

How we thank you, Heavenly Father, 

that you have given voice to our lament 

in your Word.

As David names his grief to you, 

he remembers his reason to trust in you, 

and he asks boldly and persistently for help. 

We join him on behalf of all of our friends 

who have suffered for years:

“In you our ancestors put their trust;

 they trusted and you delivered them” (Ps. 22:4).

“Be not far from me, for trouble is near, 

and there is none to help” (Ps. 22:11).

As we raise our cry for help, 

may we remember that you are the good Father, 

and may we join with David in praising you, 

for we have even more reason to hope: 

your Son, our Savior was forsaken on the cross 

that we might be forgiven, 

that we might one day live with you 

in eternal glory, 

in whole and healed bodies forever and ever. 

Read Psalm 22.

 

A Prayer about Our Tear-Counting God

by | Nov 15, 2022 | Daily Prayer, Grief, Suffering

A Prayer about Our Tear-Counting God

You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle.  You have recorded each one in your book. Psalm 56:8 

 

Tear-Counting God,

It has been a long season of loss for many.

Our friends are mourning, as are we…

We’ve lost homes in fires and floods,

We’ve lost children to miscarriage and the misery of sin,

We’ve lost aunts and uncles and mothers and fathers to Covid and cancer,

We’ve lost relationships to betrayal and abuse…

We’ve shed so many tears.

How can we endure the pain, Lord?

Only by knowing that you care about our tears,

that you count and collect them.

Only by knowing that you sent your Son

to weep real tears before he died on a cross

to redeem all of our tears.

Only by knowing that one day, our Savior will return,

and in that day, you will ever so gently

wipe the tears from our eyes. 

How we look forward to that day!

How we thank you for your love!

In Jesus’ weeping name. Amen.

Read Psalm 56; Revelation 21:4.

 

 

A Prayer about Not Being Forsaken

by | Nov 11, 2022 | Daily Prayer, gratitude, Grief, Suffering, worship, gratitude

A Prayer about Not Being Forsaken

He will be with you; he will not leave you or forsake you. Deuteronomy 31:8

Faithful Father,

In times that we feel forsaken, 

whether because of betrayal or abandonment or loss, 

may we remember, 

“It is the Lord who goes before [us],” 

and you will never leave us or forsake us. 

You are a God who made a covenant, 

a promise of love to your people

that you alone upheld. 

Even after Adam and Eve disobeyed you in the garden, 

you promised to send your Son to destroy Satan (Gen. 3:15). 

You promised Abraham to make him a great nation (Gen. 12:2), 

and you continued to love your people, the Israelites, 

even though they continued to rebel against you: 

“For the mountains may depart, 

and the hills may be removed, 

but my steadfast love will not depart from you” (Isaiah 54:10). 

In your most stunning proof of your commitment 

to bring your people back to you, 

you allowed your Son to be forsaken on the cross, 

to die for our sins, 

that we might become your children. 

Because you will never leave nor forsake 

your children in Christ, 

when we feel lonely 

or exiled 

or forgotten, 

we need not “fear or be dismayed” (Deuteronomy 31:8). 

In Jesus’ faith-full name we pray. Amen.

Read Deuteronomy 31:8; Isaiah 54. 

 

A Prayer about Not Rushing Grief

by | Nov 8, 2022 | Daily Prayer, Grief, Suffering

A Prayer about Not Rushing Grief

I am shut in so that I cannot escape; my eye grows dim through sorrow.  Psalm 88:8-9

Healing Father,

I was just thinking about the people in South Florida 

who are still recovering from Hurricane Ian. 

It’s been a little over a month since it devastated much of South Florida, 

and many people in other parts of the nation have moved on, 

forgetting it ever happened. 

That’s the way it so often works with grief. 

Our loved one dies; 

our home is wrecked; 

our relationship ends, 

and we are still wounded, 

limping through our daily lives, 

but everyone else has moved on. 

Thank you, good Father, 

for giving us time to grieve. 

Thank you for not rushing us through our pain. 

Thank you for teaching us to lament, 

to cry out to you honestly 

about the agony of our loss. 

Throughout Scripture, 

you give us words to speak to you, 

unexpected words, 

blunt words:

“You have put me in the depths of the pit, 

in the regions dark and deep” (Ps. 88:6).

“Your wrath lies heavy upon me, 

and you overwhelm me with all your waves” (Ps. 88:7). 

“He has left me stunned, 

faint all the day long” (Lam. 1:13).

Lord, in the depths of grief, 

may we keep turning to you, 

naming our honest complaint, 

and may we keep waiting 

to see you shed the light of your glory 

into our darkened hearts. 

May we trust that the day will come 

when the tears we have sown 

will be “reaped with shouts of joy” (Psalm 126: 5). 

Until that day comes, 

bring us the comfort only you can bring.

In Jesus’ merciful name. Amen.

Read Psalm 88; Lamentations 3; Psalm 126.

 

A Prayer about Affliction

by | Nov 5, 2022 | aging, dying, and death, body, Daily Prayer, Death and Resurrection, Grief, Suffering

A Prayer about Affliction

I know, O Lord, that your rules are righteous, and that in faithfulness you have afflicted me. Psalm 119:75

Faithful Lord,

The truth is, we don’t like to think that you afflict us. 

And then, when we do think you afflict us, 

we don’t always remember that it is 

“in faithfulness” that you do so. 

Today, I can more easily see how and why 

you might allow what feels like affliction in our lives. 

We have had to withhold food

from our beloved dog-who-thinks-she-is-a-person 

since last night at 8 p.m., 

because she is getting her teeth cleaned today. 

She has begged, 

she has nudged, 

she has barked her displeasure 

at not getting her morning treats, 

her morning meal, 

and her second round of morning treats. 

(I know, maybe we’re too extravagant with her?) 

(But not any less so than you are with us!).

To her, this feels like affliction. 

But we know that if we fed her, 

she might aspirate while under the anesthetic. 

Finally, she has settled, 

choosing to take a nap, 

choosing to trust 

that we have a good reason 

for “afflicting” her. 

Today, Lord, we pray that we would do the same—

that we would settle, 

that we would trust you, 

that we would know any affliction we experience 

is faithfully, sovereignly, lovingly 

administered by you. 

In the name of our afflicted Savior we pray. Amen.

Read Psalm 119:67, 71, 75.