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A Prayer about Living the Legacy We Want to Leave

by | Apr 15, 2023 | Daily Prayer, legacy, Parenting

A Prayer about Living the Legacy We Want to Leave

and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. Ephesians 5:2

Heavenly Father, 

In this world, 

the focus of leaving a legacy 

is often on making a name for ourselves. 

We ask you, 

by the mercies of Christ our Lord, 

to help us “walk in the way of love,” 

that we might become “models of goodness” (Titus 2:3, The MSG). 

Help us to throw off the sour smell of self-centeredness, 

to give ourselves up as “a fragrant offering and sacrifice to [you]” (Ephesians 5:2).

Help us to live out our unique giftedness and passions 

in ways that draw others to inhale the fragrance of Christ. 

Draw us to repent quickly when we sin 

and to live lives 

characterized by seeking 

and granting forgiveness. 

Help us to inhale the pure, fresh air 

of our righteousness in Christ 

and to exhale the sweet scent of words 

that build up and encourage others. 

In this way, Lord, 

we will live lives that matter—

to you, and to others. 

In this way, 

we will live the legacy we want to leave.

In Jesus’ loving name. Amen.

Read Ephesians 5:1-2; Titus 2:1-8.

 

If you would like to read more about living the legacy we want to leave, I wrote about this topic recently at Numbering Your Days.

A Prayer about Dysfunctional Families

by | Feb 10, 2023 | Daily Prayer, legacy, Parenting

A Prayer about Dysfunctional Families

So now, come on, let’s kill him and throw him into one of the pits. We can say that a vicious animal ate him. Then we’ll see what becomes of his dreams! Genesis 37:19

Author God,

Thank you for your Word 

which gives us hope 

that you can redeem 

even the worst of our sins 

against our families. 

Time after time, 

you supply true stories 

of fallen people, 

people you transformed, 

people through whom 

you accomplished your purposes.

In Genesis 37 we see Jacob, 

one of the fathers of many nations, 

showing favoritism to his son Joseph,

giving him a coveted coat of “many colors”.

Joseph doesn’t help matters 

by sharing a dream with his brothers 

about how he will one day rule over them.

His brothers seethe with resentment, 

so much so that they decide to kill Joseph

and tell their father he was eaten by an animal. 

Oh, Lord, have mercy on us. 

Show us that but for your transforming grace 

in Jesus Christ, 

this would be our end. 

We are like Jacob and Joseph and the brothers,

and yet, you have bought us with Christ’s blood, 

rescued us from certain death 

by your mercy. 

Thank you, Lord, 

for your goodness and grace.

In Jesus’ redeeming name. Amen. 

Read Genesis 37. 

A Prayer about Trusting the Lord to Protect Children

by | Jan 23, 2023 | Daily Prayer, Parenting, Prayer

A Prayer about Trusting the Lord to Protect Children

She put the child in it and placed it among the reeds by the river bank. Exodus 2:3b

Compassionate Father, 

As loving parents and grandparents, 

we desperately want to protect our children. 

And yet, you alone 

are powerful enough, 

wise enough, 

and merciful enough 

to properly protect them. 

As we read about Moses’ mother 

trying to protect him from the Egyptian Pharaoh 

who ordered the murder of all male Israelites babies, 

we see your saving hand at work. 

You gave Jochebed wisdom and wit 

to develop a plan for protecting Moses — 

she placed him in a basket made of reeds and pitch 

and set him into the reeds by the river bank (Exodus 2:3). 

We wonder if she felt afraid or if she fully trusted 

that you would save her infant son from drowning. 

How many times have we felt this back and forth 

between trust in you and fear for our children—

when they are sick or have an ongoing health issue, 

when we have to leave them in a new place we’re not comfortable with, 

when they make friends at school 

who might not be the best influence.  

Give us the wit and wisdom you gave Jochebed. 

Show us how to best protect 

our children and grandchildren 

from danger of all kinds. 

Most of all, give us the faith to believe 

that you love our children even more than we do, 

and that you are always seeking their good and your glory.

In Jesus’ child-loving name. Amen.

Read Exodus 2:1-10.

A Prayer about Not Being an Orphan

by | Nov 14, 2022 | Daily Prayer, Gospel living, gratitude, Parenting, Theology

A Prayer about Not Being an Orphan

As one whom his mother comforts, so I will comfort you; you shall be comforted in Jerusalem. Isaiah 66:13

Heavenly Father,

Although you are called Father in the Bible, 

may we never forget that you nurture and comfort us 

as a mother does her children:

To the rebellious Israelites, 

you are like a mother 

who will never forget her nursing child (Isaiah 49:15);

Over the city where he would soon be betrayed, 

Jesus cried, 

for he longed to gather Jerusalem 

“as a hen gathers her brood under her wings, 

and you would not!” (Matthew 23:37).

And here in Isaiah 66, 

you promise to bring a mother’s comfort 

in the day of restoration.

Because you comfort and care for your children 

as a mother and a father, 

because you have adopted us as your children, 

we lift up all who feel like orphans. 

Some have lost their mothers and fathers to death, 

others never knew the presence of a mother or father, 

still others have such broken relationships with their mothers or fathers 

that it would seem better to be an orphan. 

And yet, because you have made us your own 

through Jesus Christ, 

we need never feel that “it’s all up to us,” 

or that we are unwanted or unloved. 

Make that truth increasingly real to us, 

so that we may not live as orphans, 

trying to get through life on our own. 

When we feel alone, reach deep into our hearts 

through your Holy Spirit 

and bring us the comfort we crave. 

In Jesus’ assuring name. Amen.

Read Isaiah 66:7-24; Matthew 23:37; Isaiah 49:15. 

 

A Prayer about Being a New Parent

by | Oct 16, 2022 | Daily Prayer, Parenting, Prayer

A Prayer about Being a New Parent

Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Psalm 127:3

Gracious Father,

With one grandson born in February 

and two more grand babies on the way any day now, 

I’m frequently thinking about the early days of parenting.

Parenting new little ones or new big ones 

is such a whirlwind, 

and we lift these new parents up to you.

New parents are filled with awe at these creations, 

and they know that children are indeed a “reward,” 

a gift, a kindness, an undeserved blessing from you. 

New parents marvel that you would choose them 

to steward your gift of a precious child. 

And at the same time, 

new parents can be overwhelmed by the responsibility. 

Oh, Lord, have mercy on these new parents. 

Help them to remember the truth, 

“Unless the Lord builds the house, 

those who build it labor in vain” (Psalm 127:1). 

Help them to know that they are never alone 

in this parenting process, 

that as surely as you gave them children, 

you will love them, nurture them, and teach them, 

as the good good Father that you are. 

Help these new parents to make it a habit 

to turn to you 

when they don’t know what to do, 

and show them the way by your Spirit. 

Help these new parents to seek you 

when they can’t figure out 

how to get their jobs done 

and be the parents they want to be. 

Help them to know 

that parenting is frequently about learning to be your child, 

to depend on you as we never have before. 

In the name of your Son, our Savior, we pray. Amen.

Read Psalm 127. 

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A Prayer about What to Pray For

by | Sep 10, 2022 | Daily Prayer, Parenting, Prayer

A Prayer about What to Pray For

For the next four days, we’ll pray through Colossians. If you’d like to receive these prayers in your inbox by 6 a.m. central time, please sign up: 

And so, from the day we heard, we have not ceased to pray for you, asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding… Colossians 1:9

Heavenly Father,

Today we allow your Word to give voice to our prayers for particular people:

[Try inserting your name or a person’s name in this prayer]

We pray for [name], 

May they grow in spiritual wisdom, not wisdom of the world, 

so that they may be filled with the “knowledge of [your] will,” 

not merely knowledge about Calculus, or parenting, or world history.

With this knowledge and wisdom, 

may [name] “walk in a manner worthy of you,” 

always seeking to bring you glory and honor 

and to love others well. 

May [name] “bear fruit in every good work” 

even as they continue to know you more intimately 

and learn more about your goodness (Col. 1:10).

May [name] be strengthened with your power, 

not Powerade power or strong girl power, 

but the kind and humble power 

that comes from your glorious might.

May this glorious power strengthen [name] 

to endure suffering 

and to be patient in trials, 

that they may know the deep joy of your comfort. 

May [name] give you thanks all day every day 

for your forgiveness, 

for your redemption, 

and for calling them “saints in light,” 

In Christ’s delivering name. Amen.

Read Colossians 1:9-14.