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How Grace Grows Gratitude

How Grace Grows Gratitude

Grace and Gratitude

“It is all for your sake, so that as grace extends to more and more people, it may increase thanksgiving, to the glory of God.” 2 Cor. 4:15.

According to retailers, if you don’t already have most of your Christmas shopping done (I don’t), you are running behind! But according to the calendar, it’s only the second Tuesday in November, and that seems like a good time to think about thanksgiving. Not the American holiday necessarily, which my younger daughter once jokingly summarized as a day for “Eating and thanking, thanking and eating.” Far more, it’s a good time to consider the category of thanksgiving, or gratitude. What is it, in fact, and how and why does the Bible insist that Christians make it a regular practice?

What Gratitude Is Not

Sometimes the best way to understand something is by looking at what it’s not.

We’ve already said that the Christian practice of gratitude is not merely cultural, that is, something we celebrate once a year by dining on a sumptuous feast. In addition, the Christian practice of gratitude is also not merely dutiful.

Consider this story. Grandma Charlene buys eight-year-old Emma an expensive gold cross necklace for her birthday. The thing is, Emma wanted the Lego super hero’s school set, so she’s very disappointed when she opens her grandmother’s gift. What does Emma’s mother tell her? We know the answer, because we’ve probably all said it or had it said to us at some point: “Tell your grandmother thank-you, Emma.” Emma dutifully speaks the two words. But is she really thankful? No. She is dutiful, and she is polite. Please don’t hear what I’m not saying—it is good for Emma to thank her grandmother. It’s just that her thank you misses the main point of Christian gratitude.

Where Christian Gratitude Comes From

To better understand Christian gratitude, let’s revisit 2 Corinthians 4:15, substituting two Greek words from the original for our English words:

“It is all for your sake, so that as charis extends to more and more people, it may increase eucharisteo, to the glory of God.”

Charis increases eucharisteo. The Greek root charis means grace. The Greek prefix eu means good, happy. So God’s grace leads to a happy state of grace in the Christian.

What is God’s grace like, this grace which increases our gratitude? It is not a gold cross necklace that we didn’t want in the first place. It is God’s free gift of exactly what we needed, and exactly what we wanted (whether we knew it or not)—a life of freedom from sin (Galatians 5:1), a life of being and becoming new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17), a life of worshipping God and serving others (Gal. 5:13).

God’s Grace for Sinners Grows Gratitude

To catch a glimpse of God’s grace, consider an alternate story about Emma and her grandmother. Emma thinks her grandmother is too stern; she has been known to stick out her tongue at her grandmother and yell, “I hate you!” Despite Emma’s malicious treatment, her grandmother comes to her, takes her by the hand, and says, “I’m giving everything I own to you so that you may have financial freedom and vast opportunity.” Emma gets it all, any day, every day.

Now, that is a far-fetched story. In real life, a grandmother probably wouldn’t give all her money to a rude granddaughter. And yet, this fantastical story is analogous to our rebellious treatment of God and his gracious response to us. We have rebelled against God, telling him to leave us alone and let us run our own lives. He has responded by sending his one and only Son, Jesus, to die so that we might be free of our sin, so that we might live with faith, hope, and love. The only sensible response to the undeserved grace God has shown us is gratitude—overflowing, irrepressible, joyful gratitude. As God’s grace increases gratitude in us, we respond with hands lifted to give God glory and hands extended to share his glory throughout the world.

A Prayer about Grace and Gratitude

Our Gracious God,

Please forgive us. By our sometimes rotten thoughts, words, and deeds, we have stuck out our tongues at you and told you we hate you. We do not deserve your love, nor your free gift of forgiveness through your Son, Jesus Christ. And yet Jesus died for our sins and made us brand new, whole and holy. Our hearts overflow with your happy grace! Help us to extend this grace and glory to others! Amen.

Good Reading on Grace and Gratitude

2 Corinthians 4:152 Corinthians 9:11-12

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Why Inviting Others into Your Grief Matters

Why Inviting Others into Your Grief Matters

Have you ever had say something completely insensitive to you when you were grieving a loss? In today’s blog, we consider why we need to take the risk of inviting others to grieve with us, even when they may get it wrong. (This is an outtake from From Recovery to Restoration, because I accidentally wrote 61 meditations instead of 60!).

Letting Others Weep with Us

Weep with those who weep. Romans 12:15, ESV

When her nine-year-old daughter was diagnosed with leukemia, Malea often met with awkward responses. One friend was so distraught upon hearing the news that Malea had to comfort her in the church parking lot for ten minutes. Another friend spotted her in the grocery store then turned quickly and scurried away. A hospital visitor told her about a distant cousin who had recently died of leukemia. When we are in the midst of crisis, people will not always respond helpfully. Even so, Scripture calls us to invite the body of Christ into our grief, because God uses his church as a conduit of his healing and hope.

The command to “weep with those who weep” comes right in the middle of Paul’s instructions about living as the body of Christ (Romans 12). If we are “those who weep,” others are called to weep with us, and we are called to allow them to do so, even invite them to do so. How does God work in this communal grief?

Dr. Gerry Sittser, who lost his wife, daughter, and mother in a car accident, wrote that he often felt numb after their deaths, unable to pray and sing in church. He said, “The church is a community. Sometimes some members of that community, even through time and space, carry others, because we do not have the capacity to function the same way. I remember very vividly my inability to sing and pray in the months and, really, years after the accident. I decided to let the church sing and pray for me, not only the church here and now but the church everywhere, and well, ‘everywhen.’”

As Sittser suggests, in the season following crisis and loss, we may find ourselves spiritually, physically, and emotionally incapacitated. By the power of the Holy Spirit, the church embodies Christ’s love, entering our grief, and bearing us along in our weakness. Here are just a few of the ways God might bring you healing and hope through his church:

When you are struggling with doubt, others will believe and hope for you, lifting you to the Lord with their prayers and encouragement.

When you are feeling discouraged, a friend will share a story of how God rescued in their lives or in Scripture, and you will gain courage for the journey.

When you can’t focus long enough to read Scripture or pray, someone will send you a verse or a prayer that gives you new courage.

When your tears seem to fall unceasingly, friends will weep with you and for you, reminding you that you are never alone in your grief.

Dear friend, it may feel risky to invite others to weep with you. But as you do, you will discover a powerful source of healing and hope.

Prayer

Lord,

Thank you for integrating us into the body you have created in Christ. Help us to trust others enough to invite them into our grief, and help them to enter it with your grace and love. In Jesus’ weeping name, Amen.

Further Encouragement

Read Romans 12; Hebrews 10:24-25; 1 Corinthians 13:7.

Listen to “Blest Be the Tie” by Sara Groves.

For Reflection

In what ways have people joined you in your grief? In what ways could you reach out to invite others into your grief?

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Knowing the Knowledge that Changes the World

Knowing the Knowledge that Changes the World

Although this excerpt from The Waiting Room: 60 Meditations for Finding Peace & Hope in Crisis was written about seeking certainty in the midst of health crisis, it applies to all of the ways we may seek to “know,” “to have certainty,” and how God calls us to trust him, even when we don’t have all the answers. In this election season, I need to ask myself where I am putting my trust. Maybe you do too!

Knowledge That Will Change Your World

Thus says the Lord, your Redeemer,
    who formed you from the womb:
“I am the Lord, who made all things,
    who alone stretched out the heavens,
    who spread out the earth by myself….

Isaiah 44:24, ESV

“Knowledge that will change your world…”

It is a brilliant tagline for a hospital. I first noticed it on a sticker in the parking deck of the medical center. It plays right into our deepest fears and fiercest desires in the season of a health crisis. I do not fault the hospital for using it. Instead, I thank them for the hope it offered us.

After all, many of the worlds experts were gathered at this medical center, and they knew (almost) everything there was to know about brain tumors. Our neurosurgeon operated exclusively on brain tumors. He had performed thousands of awake craniotomies. Surely these people had the knowledge that would change our sons world.

And yetI recognize my own idolatry in that way of thinking. Idols are things we trust in more than God to deliver us. Long ago, I heard a speaker suggest we uncover our idols by asking, Where do you find your security, significance, and sense of safety? As we played the waiting game, I would have had to confess, I am seeking my sense of security and safety in these world-expert doctors.

The Bible warns us about putting our trust in idols, in earthly things that do not really have the power to save us. Isaiah 44 describes foolish people who take a piece of wood, use half of it to make a fire and the other half to carve an idol. They fall down before the idol and worship it, saying, Rescue me… you are my god (Isaiah 44:17, NLT). But the idol neither blinks nor moves, for it is merely a piece of wood. Isaiah observes, The poor, deluded fool feeds on ashes. He trusts something that cant help him at all” (Isaiah 44:20, NLT).

Please don’t misunderstand me – I do believe doctors and medical experts have much knowledge and skill to offer us. Still, the gospel invites us to trust fully in the one, true GOD who can and will deliver us, the God who made all things and knows all things. God, who has the knowledge that will truly change our world, invites us to come to him and rest in him.

Prayer

All-knowing, ever-loving Father, you are our Creator and Redeemer. You know us fully, and one day we will fully know you and fully trust you. Thank you for the knowledge you have given to medical personnel and their faithfulness in acquiring it. Help us to trust in your knowledge more than theirs. In the name of your redeeming Son, our Savior, Amen.

Further Encouragement

Read Isaiah 43:9-20; Proverbs 3:5-6.

Listen to “He Is God” by Susan Calderazzo at https://www.reverbnation.com/susancalderazzo/songs.

For Reflection: In what things are you looking for a sense of security, safety and significance during this season?

A Good Read for Hard Times: The Waiting Room Devotional

5 Verses on True Freedom

Five Verses on True Freedom

 

In these turbulent times, we need to know more than ever the freedom we enjoy in Christ. In Christ, we are…

Bible verse: And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.

Freed by the Truth

To be who Christ has designed us to be.

John 8:32

Freed to Serve Others

Not freed to “do evil.”

1 Peter 2:16

1 Peter 2:16 Bible verse graphic
Graphic of Romans 6:22

Freed from Guilt

No longer slaves to sin, freed to love and obey God.

Romans 6:22

Freed to Love Others Radically

To hate injustice and sin and to practice hospitality.

Romans 12:9-10

Graphic of Romans 12:9-10
Graphic of Revelation 1:5-6 Bible verse

Freed to Give Glory to God

To serve as priests in his kingdom

Revelation 1:5-6

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A Good Read for Hard Times: The Waiting Room Devotional

Six Ways You Can Help Your Church Right Now

Six Ways You Can Help Your Church Right Now

Is it just me, or does it seem like the coronavirus has the potential to infect our churches spiritually, to taint our healthy functioning as the body we were meant to be? I’ve been re-reading the apostle Paul’s reminder to the Corinthians about who they are as a church. As Eugene Peterson explains, the Corinthians were “all jockeying for preeminence, asserting themselves and at the same time putting others down. Each one claiming that what they had was better than what others had”[i]  Paul calls the fractious and fractured community to live as the renewed body under Christ their head. From his charge in 1 Corinthians 12, Ephesians 4, and other letters, we discover six gospel principles that will strengthen our health as a church body during this difficult season.

  1. See your sin, and note how it has corrupted your healthy functioning (1 Corinthians 11:18).

Paul frankly points out the Corinthians’ sin: “I hear that there are divisions among you” (1 Corinthians 11:18). Sin has twisted our body parts, causing dysfunction—just as I will never raise my hand again without some pain in my shoulder due to a worn-out rotator cuff, sin hampers our free movement. Given our sin, can we possibly function as we were meant to function? Paul insists that in Christ, the Spirit has given us gifts for the “common good,” gifts that build up and strengthen the body as a body” (1 Corinthians 12:4-11). In Christ, we are set free from the binding yoke of sin to function as the renewed body part God has designed us to be (Galatians 5:1). We must “go and sin no more” (John 8:11).

  1. Submit to Christ, who is the head of the body (Ephesians 4:15-16).

We must lean into our union with Christ, who is the head of the body. We must grow up into him, as Ephesians 4:15-16 instructs. Christ makes the “body grow,” restoring our healthy function, equipping us to “work properly” (Ephesians 4:16). Christ, the head, is the brains of the operation. He transforms our minds, conforming us to his image, stimulating us to move fluidly in faith, hope, and love.

  1. Strengthen the weaker members (1 Corinthians 12:22-23).

Whether physically or spiritually. Perhaps you don’t struggle with worry or fear, but your brother does. His sixty-seven-year-old sister died due to complications of the coronavirus; he witnessed its ravaging effects. He wants to wear a mask when he returns to church, and he wants you to wear one too, for his protection. He knows that singing is the third leading cause of spreading the virus, and he doesn’t want to sit in front of unmasked people while they sing. What will you do? What would Paul suggest you do? Strengthen the weaker member.

  1. Serve the other members of the body as service to Christ (1 Corinthians 12:14-20).

You have a gift: you must use it to serve the rest of the body, not to hamper the rest of the body. The eye shows the body where to go and keeps it from stumbling over hindrances. If you’re an eye, watch carefully. The whole body stands on the foot. If I’m a foot, I’d better act like a foot, or the body will fall over. The ear alerts the body to danger. If you’re an ear, listen up, and lead the body away from it.

  1. Suffer with other members (1 Corinthians 12:26).

As Paul explains, “If one member suffers, all suffer together” (1 Corinthians 12:26). Just as we would never slap our own faces or pummel our own bodies, we should beware of writing a scathing post on Facebook that might injure another member of the Church. Because our actions affect others in our body, we should consider before we speak, share, or act, “Would this word or deed contribute to the suffering of my own body?”

  1. Celebrate other members so that all may rejoice together (1 Corinthians 12:26).

On the other hand, when we honor other members, respecting differing viewpoints within the scope of Scripture (mask or no-mask; staying home, going out with appropriate cautions), we will rejoice together. In a word, we will do what a healthy church body does: we will worship. In all of our words and deeds, let us aim for rejoicing together, because the body was not made to be divided.

Dear friends, in this season, let us take up the whole armor of God, for we wrestle not against flesh and blood. Let’s not merely protect our own bodies from the coronavirus; let’s protect our church body from the virus of sin, which causes dysfunction and division. God God has chosen and exquisitely designed this body, and each of us as individual members. Let’s lean into the more excellent way of love, which bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things (1 Corinthians 13:7). As we do, we have the opportunity to bring the hope and healing of the gospel to a hurting world.

 

[i] Eugene Peterson, Conversations: The Message Bible with Its Translator (Colorado Springs: Navpress, 2007), 1790.

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Worth Waiting For

Worth Waiting For

In some areas of the world and our country, quarantine has ended. Meanwhile, many of us wait. Either we wait for lockdown to end, or we wait until we think it’s safer—for others and ourselves—to begin going out more. If you’re stuck in an endless wait, you’ll appreciate today’s devotional, excerpted from The Waiting Room.

“I will tell of the Lord’s unfailing love. I will praise the Lord for all he has done. I will rejoice in his great goodness to Israel, which he has granted according to his mercy and love.” Isaiah 63:7, NLT

After our son’s second brain surgery, a small piece of his skull had become infected, and the neurosurgeon had removed it. Six months later, they would implant a synthetic skull piece to replace the one removed. We were all eager for our son to have this fourth, and hopefully, final surgery.

The day finally arrived for this surgery. When we arrived at pre-op at the appointed time, ten a.m., there was a delay; we were asked to remain in the surgical waiting area. Finally, around noon, our son was taken to pre-op. Forty-five minutes later, my husband and I were invited back to wait with him. An hour went by, then two. We were told that the neurosurgeon was involved in a very complex surgery; we’d have to wait a while longer. As the wait was extended, my restlessness increased, but my husband and our son remained fairly calm. Finally, at six p.m., eight hours after he had been told to report, our son was taken back to surgery. Less than two hours later, the surgery was over, and all was well.

Amy Carmichael, missionary to India, puts words to how I felt in that “longest wait”: “…sometimes we are tempted to discouragement. So often we have believed that what we asked was about to be given, and then have been disappointed. But delays are for the trial of faith, not for its discouragement.” [emphasis added][i]

In the delay, my faith had indeed been tried. I held my tongue, because I did not want to infect our son with my anxiety, but internally, I was fantasizing about running down the hall of pre-op, screaming, “We can’t take this anymore!” I later asked our son, “How did you stand that long wait?” He answered very simply, “I knew they were going to come get me eventually.”

In order to wait well, we must know that the Lord is “going to come get us eventually.” As Isaiah 63:7-9 reminds us, we have every reason to believe in the Lord’s unfailing love. Despite Israel’s repeated disobedience, the Lord has shown them “great goodness,” “which he has granted according to his mercy and love” (Isaiah 63:7). As Isaiah also reminds us, “In all their suffering, he also suffered, and he personally rescued them….” (Isaiah 63:9, NLT).

Indeed, we have every reason to trust. God did not delay in sending Jesus to rescue us from the suffering of our sin. And, though it may seem like a long wait, God does not delay in sending Jesus back for us. When Jesus arrives, we will affirm, as Amy Carmichael so eloquently writes, “‘Lord, this was worth waiting for.’”[ii]

Prayer

Lord, in our longest waits, help us to remember your unfailing love and abundant mercy. May we never forget that you are coming back for us and that the sweet reunion will be worth the wait. Amen.

Further Encouragement

Read Isaiah 63:7-9; Isaiah 65:17-25.

Listen to “It’s Hard to Wait” by Flo Paris at https://youtu.be/HbMsm328cu8.

For Reflection: What delays have you experienced during this season? What helps you to wait well?

 

 

[i] Amy Carmichael, 258.

[ii] Carmichael, 258.