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How to Laugh at the Days to Come

How to Laugh at the Days to Come

She laughs at the days to come…

Last week, I wrote about “what your mother really wants for Mother’s Day,” and that made me think about being a woman who “laughs at the days to come.”

Strength and dignity are her clothing;
She laughs at the days to come.” Prov. 31:25

A short story of not laughing

Several years ago, we had a series of events involving broken appliances and water. Here is the story of one of them.

One morning at approximately 6 o’clock, I stumbled sleepy-eyed into the kitchen, where I discovered, fortunately not by stepping in it, a small puddle of water spreading from our refrigerator.

I did not laugh. Not at all funny. The last time we had an event that involved water and this appliance, I ended up like one of those cartoon characters with my finger trying to stop a spray of water shooting from behind the built-in.

I believe my response was something like, “Oh, great!” highly titered with sarcasm.

Since the water was not spraying and only expanding if I measured carefully, which I did not, I decided to go on with coffee and letting the dog out and sitting down to today’s reading.

She laughs without fear of the future.

The NLT translates Prov. 31:25:
“She is clothed with strength and dignity,
and she laughs without fear of the future.”

It made me think…

What does it look like to laugh…

  • when we see refrigerator puddles?
  • when unexpected bills arrive in the mail?
  • when a dire diagnosis comes?
  • When a friend makes a cutting remark?
  • when we think about the job interview or lack thereof?

What if, when we think about the days to come, or just the day to come, we laughed?

Not the cynical laugh of a mocking, sarcastic woman: “Oh, great!”;
nor the naïve laugh of the giggly schoolgirl, “Oh, I won’t worry about that;”
nor the troubling laugh of the insane movie character, “Mwahahaha!” (to quote my children☺).

The gospel makes us laugh

We could only laugh in the way Proverbs describes as women clothed in strength and dignity, women who laugh because we remember and hope.

We remember:“the wonderful miracles of the Lord,” and “his awe-inspiring deeds” (Ps. 145)(which do not always include refrigerator water evaporating nor sadly, tumors mysteriously disappearing).

We hope. We laugh at the future because we have hope. We look forward to the coming when Jesus will complete the restoration work he has begun. In that day, doubts will never assail us; our capacity to rest in God’s love will be perfect; and community will flourish day after day in unbroken praise of our Creator. (Revelation 21-22).

Yes, until that day, we will be assaulted by the trials and travails of the fallen world, but because of the wild reality of the resurrection of Christ, anything can happen. Anything.

A Prayer about Laughing at the Days to Come

Dear Lord, Sovereign God of the universe,
Help us to be women who find our strength not in our own power but in your strength made perfect in our weakness. Forgive us for trying to run the world on our own terms, for forgetting to look for you in all circumstances. Help us to have photographic memories of your mercy and grace. And in each day, let us be confident and creative, looking at each moment as a gift from you and an opportunity to know your love more deeply.
In the glorious name of the One who saves us from all fear and fretting. Amen

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What Is Prudence, and Do You Want It?

What Is Prudence, and Do You Want It?

Whatever happened to prudence?

As I mentioned last week, I’ve been wondering about wisdom, so I turned to Proverbs. In my reading, this word prudence keeps popping up. Wisdom and prudence walk hand in hand:

“I wisdom, dwell with prudence,

And I find knowledge and discretion.” Proverbs 8:12

Does anyone want to be prudent in the 21stcentury? What does prudence mean, anyway?

A little dictionary exploration led to this discovery:

Prudence = “caution or circumspection as to danger or risk” (Merriam-Webster.com)

Prudence defies current bestseller wisdom.

In that case, prudence is definitely not the in-thing in the 21stcentury: we’re supposed to be dangerous, bold, and risky! At least that’s what the titles in the self-help section urge us to do: Dare Boldly! Own the Day, Own Your Life!Or, if we’re not being dangerous and bold, we should do things that involve what my grandmother always called four-lettter words: “How to not give a…” or “Make [stuff] happen”…In other words: Be reckless…be care-less!

Such is the bookstore wisdom of the 21stcentury. Here’s a thought, maybe even a modern-day proverb:

It's not a good idea to be bold and risky unless you're also wise and prudent. Share on X

A Prudent Woman

What does the ancient wisdom of Proverbs teach us about prudence? I looked at a few of the Proverbs as well as some other biblical wisdom and came up with this sketch of a prudent woman:

  1. She’s knowledgeable but restrained.

Prudent people don’t flaunt their knowledge;
talkative fools broadcast their silliness.  Proverbs 12:23, The MSG

Even if she’s been married for 35 years, she resists giving marriage counsel to her newly engaged daughter, unless she specifically asks for it, and even then, she proceeds cautiously.

2. She doesn’t have a quick temper.

Fools have short fuses and explode all too quickly;
the prudent quietly shrug off insults. Proverbs 12:16, The MSG

If her co-worker jabs her with a snarky remark, she either responds graciously, inviting the insulter to be kind, or she remains silent. Wisdom tells her when to speak and when to remain silent.

3. She’s appropriately cautious.

A prudent person foresees danger and takes precautions.
The simpleton goes blindly on and suffers the consequences. Proverbs 22:3, NLT

The prudent woman may choose to be a firefighter, but she will never try to fight a fire without the covering of both protective gear and protective prayer.

4. She receives correction humbly and openly.

A fool despises his father’s instruction,

But whoever heeds reproof is prudent. Proverbs 15:5, ESV

When her husband tells her she’s not pressing the right button on the remote, she doesn’t flip out on him – she thanks him and asks him to show her which one to press. Or, more importantly, when her husband tells her he was hurt by her sarcastic remark about his driving, she apologizes and asks God for help guarding her tongue.

5. She recognizes the hope of the gospel.

For the message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God. 1 Corinthians 1:18, NIV

A prudent woman is neither proud nor self-righteous. Her signature humility and grace derive from her understanding that she is a sinner richly forgiven by God and made wonderfully new by his work.

Prayer: Lord, help us to grow in prudence, to be patient and kind, wise and humble, bold but aware of danger, open to correction and ready to repent. Grow us up in the wisdom of the Cross. In Jesus’ wise name we pray, Amen.

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Whatever Happened to Wisdom?

Whatever Happened to Wisdom?

What is wisdom?

What I need, I thought as I read Mary Elizabeth Blake’s posts about social media, is a wise tongue. I have begun to be more intentional about how I post, how I comment, and how I spend time looking at people’s pictures and posts with or without commenting. Thinking about a wise tongue made me think about wisdom itself – what is wisdom, and does anyone even want it anymore?

It turns out, based on an internet search, that many people in the 21stcentury think of wisdom in terms of “mindfulness,” which apparently means being attentive to what’s going on in the here and now. There are even entire conferences devoted to wisdom, Wisdom 2.0, for example. The stated purpose of the Wisdom 2.0 conference is to help people learn how “to live with greater wisdom, purpose, and meaning, while using technology in ways that create a more open and healthy culture.”

When I read that, I thought, “Hoo-RAH! I don’t have to shell out 1000 bucks for a conference to get this wisdom! I have a book that’s been around since before time began that teaches me how to live life in the here and now AND the hereafter! Not only that, it points me to the One who made all of that possible!”

Free wisdom!

You probably have it too, or you can read it for free! It’s the book of Proverbs, smack dab in the middle of the Bible. Have you read it lately? I am re-reading it and finding a lot that applies to my here-and-now-and-everafter life.

Consider these five verses and how they might help us grow in wisdom, purpose, meaning, mindfulness, and healthy relationships:

  1. On paying attention to the here and now in order to learn something, in this case, to work hard:

You lazy fool, look at an ant. Watch it closely; let it teach you a thing or two.

Nobody has to tell it what to do.

All summer it stores up food; at harvest it stockpiles provisions. Proverbs 6:6-8, The MSG.

(Don’t you just love how Proverbs speaks bluntly J!).

  1. On finding a strong sense of purpose:

Whoever goes hunting for what is right and kind

Finds life itself – glorious life! Proverbs 21:21, The MSG

  1. On finding meaning in life:

Leave your impoverished confusion and live!

Walk up the street to a life with meaning. Proverbs 9:6, The MSG

  1. On loving someone who is hurting:

 Wise words are like deep waters; wisdom flows from the wise like a bubbling brook. Proverbs 18:4, NLT

  1. On interacting with anyone, anytime:

 Your kindness will reward you, but your cruelty will destroy you. Proverbs 11:17, NLT

The good news of Proverbs is that there is wisdom for daily life; the better news is that there is One who is living wisdom, who sacrificed his life for us so that we might also live wisely:  Jesus.

Wisdom challenge:

Read or re-read Proverbs with Jesus in mind, and pray that you may live and love wisely in God’s story of grace.

Prayer:

Lord, God, we thank you for your wisdom and teaching on how to use words gently, kindly, and wisely. Help us to give life with our words and actions as you have taught us to do through your Servant, Jesus. In his life-giving name we pray, Amen.

 

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Following Christ after Lent: A True Story

Following Christ after Lent: A True Story

True story: when spammers get it right…

The Spammers are now making comments on my site that I haven’t posted in a while. That’s bad when Spammers’ comments are on target.

Ah, it has been a FULL season, and time is squoze, but I’m giving myself a timed 20 minutes to share something that’s on my heart and I really want y’all to know about. We’ll see where it goes.

Do you want to follow Christ? This man thought he did…or did he?

Tonight at the jail I’m going to teach the ladies the first lesson from Stott’s “Christ” Bible study guide – entitled, “Are You Ready to Meet Christ?” The Scripture is from Mark 10:17-31, the sad but true story of a rich young religious man who seeks Christ to ask him what he must DO to inherit eternal life?

The poor [sic] man seems fairly confident that he’s in good shape – after all, he’s kept ALL of the commandments that Christ mentions he should keep to inherit eternal life.

Except, not to be snarky or anything (Christ is far gentler than I – but you knew that – see Mark 10:21 where Christ looked on him and loved him),
but you might think he’d notice that Christ left a few out in his list (see Mark 10:19 and Exodus 20:3-16) – like, namely, the very first one –

“Thou shalt have no other gods before me.” Exodus 20:3.

The young rich ruler cannot do what Christ asks of him in verse 21. It is impossible.

It’s impossible to DO that…

Why? Jesus explains to the disciples with an analogy – it is easier for a camel to go through an eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the kingdom of God (Mark 10:25). That is such an astonishing statement that their response is a jaw-dropped,

“Well, then, who can be saved?”

And now we get to the point of the whole passage and the thing that is on my heart to share –

“With man it is impossible, but not with God. For all things are possible with God.” Mark 10: 27.

We just celebrated the RESURRECTION OF CHRIST. What hinders you from knowing and following Christ? Everything. And nothing. At the jail, the ladies’ problem will not likely be with their riches. It will be with something else they cling to that brings a sense of security and significance. It will be with some way that they try to save themselves.

What kept me from following Christ? What keeps you?

In my heart, the thing that kept me from entering the kingdom of God wasn’t really related to wealth, although by this world’s standards, I had it.

What kept me from coming to Christ is something Walter Marshall talks about in his A-MAZING book, The Gospel Mystery of Sanctification, translated into readable English by Bruce McRae –

“You are so naturally prone to base your salvation on your own works! Even if you do not try to earn your salvation by your works, you will at least try to make your works the things that prepare you to received Christ and his salvation by faith.

Marshall then tells us about the WRONG TEACHING we are given:

“Do you see what they are saying? Your works do not save you, but your works make you fit and worthy to receive Christ. This view has terrible results: many will clearly see, with horror, the abominable filth of their own hearts. However, they will not come immediately to Christ because they will think they are not worthy to come to Christ.”

You know what really kept the rich young ruler from coming to Christ?

He thought he could DO something to inherit eternal life! He thought HE could do something to inherit eternal life!!!!!

Weak and wounded sinner, come to Jesus and lay your broken, clingy heart before him.

With MAN it is IMPOSSIBLE, but with GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.

 

 

Our Surprising God: A True Story

Our Surprising God: A True Story

Our Surprising God: The True Story of Isaac

by Elizabeth Turnage | Living Story Podcast

I have the great privilege of being on a team that leads a worship service once a month at the local jail. Last month, I decided you might enjoy hearing the message I delivered on the “true story” of God’s grace, so I turned it into a podcast. This month, I did the sequel, and have again posted it. I hope you enjoy listening to these true stories and that the Word seeps deep into your heart.

Note: I’m still a newbie to the podcasting work, so you can play it from this page, or scroll to the end of the page to download, or search for the Living Story podcast in iTunes.

This time, for you who prefer reading, I’ve included the transcript of the podcast :-)! Please let me know if you enjoy these. I love doing them and wouldn’t mind doing more :-)!

A true story about people who are tired of waiting on God’s surprising plan

Last month we considered the TRUE BIBLE story of two flawed women, one flawed man, and one amazingly gracious and faithful God. We remembered that God had a plan, a plan for a nation, a plan to redeem the world left broken by sinners. This plan would come about through one baby – the baby of Sarah and Abraham.

Abraham and Sarah have shown a lot of faith in leaving their homeland, Ur, and coming all this way[FIND OUT HOW FAR], and they’ve shown a lot of faith in trusting God to care for them and to fulfill his promise. But they’ve also stumbled a lot along the way.

In the true story we looked at last month, in Genesis 16, Sarah and Abraham decided to take things into their own hands and try to get this promised baby through Sarah’s maidservant Hagar. THAT was a disaster. THAT WAS CLEARLY NOT GOD’S PLAN!

Despite the fact that Abraham and Sarah keep making a mess of things, God continues to show them GRACE, FAITH, AND LOVE – the 3 words we talked about last month.

Do you like surprise stories?

Before we get into today’s story, I want to talk about SURPRISE for a moment.

Have you ever been really and truly surprised? Maybe either received a very surprising gift or given a very surprising gift? Or maybe had a surprise party?

I once heard of a woman who planned a great surprise party for her 12-year-old daughter. So she made a plan, and she invited everyone and told them all to keep it a secret. She got decorations and hid them at her neighbor’s house. She went to her neighbor’s house and made a cake. She worked for months planning the surprise. On the day of the party – which was NOT the girl’s birthday, her mom took her to the movies in the afternoon, and all of her friends and her neighbor got everything ready for the party. When the mom and the daughter walked into the house, everyone yelled SURPRISE!

But what happened next was NOT what the mom expected when she planned the party. HER DAUGHTER BURST INTO TEARS! Her mother was freaking out. She was afraid she did something wrong. But then her daughter started laughing and smiling and jumping up and down. She was SO HAPPY and GRATEFUL to her mom and her friends that she had started crying.

That is what SURPRISE can do to us. It can affect our emotions intensely.

God’s surprising plan is no secret…

Today we’re going to talk about how God is a SURPRISING GOD! God hasn’t kept his surprise a secret from Abraham and Sarah – from the beginning, he has told them he would bless them and give them a baby, that they would have as many descendants as the sand in the seashore.

What IS SURPRISING about God is how he keeps his promise even when they don’t keep theirs. What is surprising about God is how gracious and faithful and loving he is to people who aren’t always like loving and obedient to him. In fact, God is loving and gracious to them – and us – even when we don’t believe he will come through with his promise.

Abraham laughs at God’s surprising plan…

God keeps telling Abraham that he is going to give him a baby, and he keeps giving him signs of his love.

In Genesis 17:15, he repeated the promise, this time specifically saying it would be by Sarah,

“I will bless her and will surely give you a son by her. I will bless her so that she will be a mother of nations; kings of peoples will come from her.” Genesis 17:15

You know what Abraham did when he heard this?

“He fell facedown; he laughed and said to himself,

“Will a son be born to a man a hundred years old? Will Sarah bear a child at the age of ninety?” Genesis 17:18

And then Abraham asked God if maybe Ishmael could be the blessed son.

Rather than being “surprised” and delighted by God’s promise, Abraham doubts. He is not laughing because he’s happy. He’s laughing because he thinks it is impossible. And I think that sometimes I, sometimes we, are a LOT like Abraham.

This whole story we’re looking at today makes us ask,

“Are we laughing cynically – like, “THAT’S NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN!!!”

…or are we laughing nervously, even, “Hahahaha…that would be cool if it happened, but it’s probably not going to happen…”

…or are we laughing at the sheer hilarity, the stunning, shocking, SURPRISE that God has been that good to us and done something that impossible?

You know what God’s response was to Abraham laughing so hard he fell down?  You guessed it – SURPRISING. He simply says,

“Yes, but your wife Sarah will bear you a son, and you will call his name Isaac.”

It’s a joke. It’s not a joke because God is completely serious. But you have to know that the name Isaac in Hebrew means, Isaac means “He laughed.”

The God of surprising redemption…

You know what — God laughs at our cynical, doubting laughter, because he is the God of SURPRISING REDEMPTION.

In the true story we’re looking at today, God does something even more SURPRISING – he shows up in person.

READ GENESIS 18:1-15.

Let’s look at some of the surprises of this story:

  1. Surprise visitors. Abraham clearly isn’t expecting anyone, but it was not too (surprising) in that world for travelers to stop in and stay because there was no Quality Inn. At first, it doesn’t seem that Abraham recognizes that one of the 3 visitors is the Lord, even though we are told it is from the beginning. But even so, Abraham treats the visitors with great honor and hurries (it’s also surprising that this 99-year-old man is running around in the heat getting Sarah to cook bread and his servants to prepare a calf.) So, we could say he is happily surprised by his visitors.
  1. The surprise visitor is God. By verse 9, Abraham has to realize this is the Lord, because they ask, “Where is Sarah, your wife?” And since her name has just been changed from Sarai to Sarah BY THE LORD, that’s something only they would know. And in those days, God didn’t just go around visiting people, so it is a BIG SURPRISE that Abraham is visited by the Lord.
  1. Sarah’s surprise. Sarah is eavesdropping, hiding behind the tent, listening to the conversation. Imagine her surprise when she hears her name called! Imagine her surprise when she hears the promise, “I will return to you about this time next year, and your wife, Sarah, will have a son.”

The storyteller reminds us, in case we’ve forgotten:

“Abraham and Sarah were both very old by this time, and Sarah was long past the age of having children.” Genesis 18:9

Now, Sarah was surprised – but what kind of surprise is it? She laughs. TO HERSELF. Her response is similar to Abraham’s in Chapter 17 – “How could a worn-out woman like me enjoy such pleasure…!” She is afraid to imagine such a surprise. She doubts such a thing could be possible.

Have you ever felt like Sarah?!

If so, then you will love the next SURPRISE:

  1. The Lord talks to Sarah through Abraham, verse 13: “Then the Lord said to Abraham, ‘Why did Sarah laugh? Why did she say, ‘Can an old woman like me have a baby? IS ANYTHING TOO HARD FOR THE LORD?”

Remember – Sarah isn’t in plain view, and Sarah said this to herself. So God is surprising her by knowing what she’s thinking.

  1. The Lord talks to Sarah directly, and he is surprisingly gracious to her.

Because after God says this to Abraham, she gets afraid, and she lies – saying, “I didn’t laugh.”

“But the Lord said, ‘No, you did laugh.’” Genesis 18:15

Sarah LIED to God, but he forgave her, and he fulfilled his promise to her. THAT IS WHAT OUR SURPRISING GOD IS LIKE.

God pulls off his surprising plan…

And now we fast forward to ONE YEAR LATER. In the meantime, Abraham has AGAIN tried to pass his wife off as his sister, so as you can see, what happens next is another example of God’s surprising grace to people who have not done anything to earn it.

Read Genesis 21: 1-7

Let’s notice 3 things about this true story:

  1. How did it happen that Sarah and Abraham conceived a child?

v. 1: “The Lord KEPT HIS WORD and did for Sarah exactly what he had promised.”

  1. When did it happen?

At just the time God had said it would!!! Genesis 21:2

So, in a way, this is really NOT SURPRISING, because God has said all along that he would bring an heir through Sarah and Abraham.

  1. What was the effect, and who caused it?

LAUGHTER – and God brought it, verse 6.

Sarah’s response is similar to the overwhelmed response of the woman’s daughter. Except she doesn’t cry first.

Sarah is SURPRISED – not the cynical, doubting kind of surprise, but the nervous giggly kind of surprise …

The overwhelmed awe, that is amazing, wow, I can’t believe it’s really true kind of surprise that fills your heart and makes you want to laugh and cry and jump up and down and shout and tell the world, “I can’t believe this happened to ME!”

Abraham and Sarah name their baby laughter, because GOD HAD TOLD THEM TO.

Just think, whenever they call Isaac’s name, they will remember that they laughed at God’s promise, doubting, disbelieving, kind of wanting to believe, but not really sure. And he had the last laugh. Because he came through.

It is a SURPRISING GIFT. The gift of God’s grace, faithfulness, and love coming through to people who go in and out of believing his goodness.

God has an even more surprising gift in store…

But it isn’t the last surprising baby born in the Bible. Because this story points us forward to another, even more surprising true story of a baby born in even more impossible circumstances.

That baby is our Lord Jesus Christ, whom God promised would come to defeat all evil in Genesis 3:15.

That baby is a fully human, fully divine baby, come to earth to call sinners to repentance. That baby grew in wisdom and stature and in favor with God and man to live a perfect life and die a sacrificial death.

That baby was the MOST SURPRISING BABY – THE MOST SURPRISING GIFT…

Of a faithful God to people who aren’t always so faithful.

So as we wrap up this story, let’s just notice a few things about our surprisingly gracious God, our perfectly holy God, the great planner of the best surprises.

  1. We shouldn’t be so surprised when God does impossible things.

God asks a question we should all ask ourselves,

“Is anything too hard for the Lord?”

When we are in tough circumstances, we need to remember this question.

  • Then we need to remember all of the ways God has been faithful in the past.
  • We need to remember the surprising “laughter” of redemption – in the Bible, and in our own lives.
  • We need to remember that Jesus has not only saved us from our sins, but he is changing our hearts.
  • We need to remember that nothing can separate us from the love of THE SURPRISING GOD who is working all things for his glory and our good.

SO WE SHOULDN’T BE SO SURPRISED at what the Lord can do.

  1. It IS the best surprise EVER that God is such a friend to sinners.

He comes to visit Abraham as a FRIEND.

He is being a good friend to Sarah in also ‘visiting’ her but doing it in a way she can handle. He is gentle with her in correcting her lie, and gracious to fulfill his promise. That is what it means to be a FRIEND to SINNERS.

But even more surprisingly, JESUS WAS A FRIEND TO SINNERS. If you ever doubt that Jesus wants to be a friend to a person like you, to a person who has messed up her life pretty bad, I dare you to read the Bible. I dare you to ask around. Because Jesus came to be a friend to sinners, and to give us a way back to being friends with God.

In Romans 5:10, it says,

“For since our friendship with God was restored by the death of his Son while we were still his enemies, we will certainly be saved through the life of his Son.”

SO YES, GOD IS FULL OF SURPRISES, AND EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US SHOULD WALK AROUND ALL THE TIME LAUGHING HILARIOUSLY, NAMING OUR KIDS AND OUR DOGS AND OUR FRIENDS ISAAC, BECAUSE GOD HAS PUT SO MUCH SURPRISING GOODNESS IN OUR LIVES BY HIS GRACE, FAITHFULNESS, AND LOVE!
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There Is a Friend…

There Is a Friend…

Because I got to play with puppies today, and this photo was just too cute not to share;-)!!

Friends come and friends go,
    but a true friend sticks by you like family.

Proverbs 18:24, The MSG