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A Prayer about Seeking Peace and Pursuing It

A Prayer about Seeking Peace and Pursuing It

Peacemaking God,

Make us, like David, people who seek peace with our enemies. 

We desperately need your intervention to live out these words,

“Keep [our] tongues from evil

And [our] lips from speaking deceit” (Psalm 34:13).

“If possible, so far as it depends on [us], 

[may we] live peaceably with all” (Romans 12:18).

Help us to remember that your eyes are 

“toward the righteous and [your] ears toward their cry” (Psalm 34:15).

The fact is, we’re really no good at revenge, 

but the day will come when you will 

“cut off the memory of [those who do evil] from the earth” (Psalm 34:16).

Help us then, to follow our Lord Jesus, who leads us 

to “turn away from evil and do good, 

to seek peace and pursue it” (Psalm 34:14).

In Jesus’ peace-bringing name. Amen. 

Read Psalm 34:10-22.

A Prayer about the Creator and Ruler

A Prayer about the Creator and Ruler

God, our King,

Forgive us. 

We bow down before earthly rulers, 

scrolling through feeds to discover their pronouncements, 

feeding off their power, 

obeying or giving lip-service to the decrees 

of a fallen man or woman. 

You merely spoke, words like, “Let there be light,” and light appeared. 

Again and again, through Genesis 1, 

“And God said,”

“And it was so….”

How could we doubt your power, your might, 

your right to rule over us?

How could we doubt your capacity to rule all of creation, 

since you spoke all of creation into existence?

Forgive us, Lord, and draw us to bow down before you 

as our Creator and King, the only One who has the right to demand our service.

In the name of the King who died that we might live we pray. Amen. 

Read Psalm 33.

How Cynicism Kills Gratitude

How Cynicism Kills Gratitude

“For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened.” Romans 1:21, ESV

She is astute and assertive; nothing gets by her. She sneers at her sister’s naiveté; smugly congratulating herself on not being easily fooled by such childish notions of God and heaven. She will shed no tear over her own suffering—after all, what more would one expect from this miserable, pitiful life? She has no awe, because nothing is really awesome. Life is hard, and then you die.

Who is she? She is the Modern-Cynic. Independent and strong, intelligent and competent, she doesn’t need God or others to help her out in this life. She thinks she knows foolishness, but Scripture says that she herself is a fool. According to Romans 1:19-23, the evidence of God’s goodness, holiness, love, power, and majesty is inscribed everywhere in the cosmos. But the cynical heart refuses to see it. Cynicism is the murderer of gratitude because it has lost its awe in God.

The cynicism of our own hearts may not be so overt as Ms. Modern-Cynic’s. We must seek it out as it sneaks about in the crevices of our sin nature, subtle as it may be. Consider Simon the Pharisee of Luke 7:37-50, whose cynicism about Jesus left him with little love and gratitude.

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Simon is certain—certain that Jesus cannot be a “prophet” because he doesn’t even know that the wild woman weeping all over his feet is “a sinner” (my emphasis) (Luke 7:39). In the ultimate irony, Simon does not know, cannot know, that Jesus is reading his mind (Luke 7:40)! Self-reliant Simon sneers at the needy woman, silently mocking her effusive show of gratitude. Jesus tells Simon a little story to invite him to see his own sin and thank God for forgiveness. When Jesus concludes, “he who is forgiven little, loves little” (Luke 7:41-46), I always long for the truth to dawn on Simon, for his eyes to grow wide with awe as he recognizes Jesus’ compassion in his warning. I want him to fall on his knees before Jesus right next to the weeping sinful woman. Sadly, that is not how the story ends. Simon’s “foolish heart is darkened” (Romans 1:21).  His cynicism has killed his gratitude.

What about you? Can you sniff out scents of cynicism in your own story?

  • Perhaps you’ve prayed a seemingly unanswered prayer for a spouse, a child, a friend, for years? You’ve begun to doubt that God even cares; you’ve begun to feel certain that God won’t intervene in this impossible situation.
  • Or, maybe you’ve succumbed to the whatever response to life in a fallen world? It just hurts too much to feel the ache of creation’s groaning, so you shut your eyes to the joy and beauty of God’s redemptive handwriting in the universe?
  • Maybe you’ve learned your role as a strong and independent being so well that you’ve forgotten what it’s like to be as desperate as the sinful woman who loved much because she was forgiven much.

Dear friends, let us draw near the cross to remember the black day that Jesus stamped out all cause for cynicism once and for all, as he hung there dying. Let us draw near the empty tomb and join the first disciples in resurrection joy, falling on our knees in gratitude for our Savior.

A Prayer about Cynicism

Our Dear Lord, Creator of the Heavens and the Earth,

By your power, you have given us everything we need to believe in something beyond the here and now. Thank you for the wonders you have worked—in the stars and in our stories. Forgive us for closing our eyes to your goodness, for thinking we know more than you about glory and goodness. Slay in us that murderer of gratitude, our subtle and sometimes overt, cynicism. In Jesus’ in-credible name we ask, Amen.

Photo by Chris Barbalis on Unsplash

What to Do When the News Is Overwhelming

What to Do When the News Is Overwhelming

Dear Friends, 

I don’t know about you, but I can be sucked into the media scrolls and screens. In this season, perhaps more than ever, we need to remember where to set our minds. Enjoy this excerpt from From Recovery to Restoration: 60 Meditations for Finding Peace & Hope in Crisis today. 

Set Your Minds on Things Above

If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.  Colossians 3:1, ESV

We scroll through our social media feeds, searching Twitter, Facebook, Instagram—for what?  We glue our eyes to the news at any and every hour of the day, filling our minds with words and words and words from people we don’t know and barely trust. Pandemic panic has set in, and our world is seeking hope and help, but the apostle Paul suggests we may be looking in the wrong places. 

Paul reminds us that we have been raised with Christ; that reality changes everything about where we should look for hope and help. He tells us to “seek the things above, where Christ is…” (Colossians 3:1). To seek the things above is to seek the one who first sought us—Jesus. To seek the things above is to look first for the things that Jesus cares most about, his kingdom and his righteousness. As we seek the things above, we find provision for all of our needs, and our anxiety subsides (Matthew 6:25-34).

Not only must we seek the things above, we must “set [our] minds on the things that are above, not on things that are on earth” (Colossians 3:2). We must “set our minds,” or “fix our minds.” To fix our minds is to have the intense concentration of a world-champion chess player, to have the laser focus of a brain surgeon. For Christians, it means that instead of fixating on non-stop news, we instead fill our minds with the things of Christ, his rule and his reign, his glory and his grace.

Setting our minds on things above does not mean that we ignore the things of this earth. It simply means that we begin by seeking Christ in Scripture, in prayer, and in fellowship with other believers. As we set our compass on Christ, we remain on course to live as he has called us to live on this earth. During crisis, moms and medical people, delivery workers and truck drivers will focus their minds and energy on the earthly tasks that need to be accomplished to care for those they serve. But they will do so while praying, “Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven” (Matthew 6:10).

Finally, setting our minds on the things above will help us remember that the day of restoration is coming. When our lives are centered on Christ, we are always scanning the horizon, watching for his return, waiting for the day when we will live with him in the new heavens and the new earth. In that day, in that place, we will “appear with him in glory” (Colossians 3:4), living and loving forever in his perfect peace.

Prayer

Lord Christ,

Draw our eyes away from our screens and toward your glorious presence on the throne next to our heavenly Father. Help us to set our minds on you and seek to live out your love on this earth. In your glorious name. Amen.

Further Encouragement

Read Colossians 3:1-3; Matthew 6:25-34.

Listen to “Turn Your Eyes upon Jesus” by Lauren Daigle.

For Reflection

Do you find yourself filling your mind with things of this earth during crisis? Make a list of three ways you could set your mind on things above and schedule times on your calendar to do them.

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"Whether it be in the midst of physical pain, addiction, abandonment, abuse, or habitual sin, Elizabeth will redirect your gaze over and over through scripture to meditate not on the gaping hole of your loss, but on the relentless pursuit of Jesus's love."

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Freedom from Parenting Guilt: Six Gospel Keys

Freedom from Parenting Guilt: Six Gospel Keys

Freedom from Guilt about Parenting Programs

The toddler is screaming for those mini-Oreos in the cookie aisle. If you know exactly what to do, you may not be a parent. The fact is, parenting is confusing—the right thing to do is not always clear.

The Living Story focus for July is freedom, specifically the freedom we enjoy in Christ. Because too many parents spend their lives trapped in guilt, today we are focusing on freedom from parental guilt. If you know a parent who needs freedom and hope, please share this post with them.

From the time we are pregnant or adopting, we will be met with parenting advice and programs. Some parenting programs hold false promise to help us produce the designer child we think we want. Child-centered, parent-centered, Jesus-centered—which do we choose? (We DO know the Sunday school answer)!. And even if we know which program is right, how do we execute?

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The Only Parenting Program That Frees us from Parental Guilt

The truth is, no program will “work,” whatever that means—not even the Jesus-centered one. Not because Jesus fails, but because we do. Please don’t hear what I’m not saying: the collective, common-grace wisdom of these programs can be very helpful, or why would I have hauled around that heavy tome, What to Expect When You’re Expecting throughout my pregnancy?

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We and our children will fail to keep the law every time. Thankfully, God’s gracious, compassionate, unchangeable, eternal plans never fail. And his Spirit empowers us to live for him. In God’s parenting program, there is freedom and hope for parents and children alike.

Six Gospel Keys to Freedom from Parental Guilt

1.   Learn the redemption story Scripture tells.

Isn’t that a fancy way of saying “Read your Bible”? Why, yes, yes it is. But it’s even better than that. The Holy Spirit actually transforms our hearts as we read. So, let’s listen to Romans 12:2:

“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”

2.  Pray. Over and Over. Often. Believing that God hears (1 Thessalonians 5:17).

  • When you don’t know which school will help your son with his learning disorder, ask God to show you the way and remind you that he really does have a plan.
  • Ask God for your daughter’s shoulder to heal so she can play college volleyball. If it doesn’t, ask him to give you a bigger picture of the redemption story you are writing in her life.

3.  Repent.

“Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord” (Acts 3:19).

  • Drive back to the school with a smiley-face cookie for the boy you left with a harsh word.
  • Call your twenty-year-old and tell her you’re sorry for trying to write her story your way.
  • Admit that parenting does not preclude sinning against your children, and turn back to your Savior for forgiveness.

4.  Forgive.

“As the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive” (Col. 3:13).

  • When the three-year-old tells you he hates you, forgive him.
  • When your previously compliant teenager starts rolling her eyes at everything you suggest, forgive her.

Forgive them, not with your arms folded and a begrudging frown, but as your Father forgives you, tenderly, compassionately, mercifully, with open arms. (Of course, forgiving does not mean excusing! Yes, there are consequences to sin, but we are called to forgive as our Father forgives).

5. Work as a team with your spouse, ex-spouse, and other caregivers.

  • When your husband uses the Shop-vac to clean up a toddler’s vomit while you are at the church retreat, praise his ingenuity!
  • When you bitterly disagree about how to address addiction to video games or addiction to drugs, look to Christ as your reconciler.

At times, it will take hefty doses of humility to live in unity with other caregivers; Christ has shown us the way.

6. Surround yourself with grace-filled community.

  • Make friends who will hit their knees when you call to say your daughter has binged again, or your son has been diagnosed with lymphoma.
  • Thank your children’s hard-working teachers for seeing that your child needs structure and leadership opportunities to keep her explosive energy moving in the right direction.

A Prayer for Guilty Parents

Lord, help us. We need to know the freedom we have in Christ, that we are forgiven for our sins against our children. Please take this burden of guilt we carry, and leave us with the joyful “yoke” of serving you as parents. In Jesus’ perfectly loving name we pray, Amen.

Freedom from Racial Brokenness: 5 Black Female Voices

Freedom from Racial Brokenness: 5 Black Female Voices

 

Is it even possible to be freed from racial brokenness? Is there hope for healing? Listen to five female black voices writing about the brokenness as well as the true hope for healing. With Vanessa K. Hawkins, Lisa Robinson Spencer, Jasmine Holmes, Trillia Newbell, and Jackie Hill Perry.

Beyond the Roles

Vanessa K. Hawkins

(MDiv, Covenant Theological Seminary) Director of Women’s Ministry at First Presbyterian Church in Augusta, Georgia. Women’s Ministry as Diversity Adviser, PCA.

 

Vanessa K. Hawkins, From her article “On Oneness, Lament, and Seeing with Compassion” at the EnCourage blog:

“Looking Isn’t Always Seeing

While it is necessary to look in order to see, looking doesn’t always equate to seeing. Movement from blindness to sight is a metaphor used repeatedly in Scripture to talk about our inability to fully see. “For now we see in a mirror dimly…” (1 Cor 13:12). While we don’t see perfectly, it doesn’t mean that we can’t see or shouldn’t try to see to the best of our ability. Spiritual sight is Spirit-dependent and is part of our growing in the likeness of Christ.

Most of us would openly and wisely admit that we have blind spots, and that’s great awareness to have. But to know we have blind spots and not seek to overcome them is reckless at best. Having blind spots is not a neutral state but dangerous to the one you can’t see. The inability to see is not a matter of if I injure someone, but when.

This is also true for colorblindness. I have heard well-meaning people claim colorblindness as a way of communicating their refusal to discriminate based on skin color. While not discriminating is a noble idea, colorblindness is a sight problem. To not see color is to not fully see those endowed with beautiful melanin by a Creator who calls what He made very good (Genesis 1:31).  To not see color is to deny the race-based, systemic ills that snuffed out the lives of Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor, George Floyd, and way too many others to name. The Father isn’t colorblind. He celebrates and redeems our ethnic differences (Rev. 7:9).

Good vision affords us the ability to see and celebrate our ethnic differences, not just tolerate them and certainly not despise them. Colorblindness is not a virtue; it’s dysfunction. Scripture calls us from blindness to sight. Our cry should be that the Lord help us see and move us from blindness to sight.”

Jasmine Holmes

Teacher, Author

Mother to Son: Letters to a Black Boy on Identity and Hope

Mother to Son by Jasmine Holmes

From Mother to Son:

“I set out to write a series of letters to Wynn, not just about the racial climate of the country that he lives in, but about the conversation surrounding this racial climate. I want to remind him that his identity is firmly planted in the person and work of Christ Jesus and that because of that he has incredible significance to the King of the universe. I want to remind him of his dignity as an image bearer and to encourage him to respond out of that dignity, even to a topic as emotionally charged as racial reconciliation. Even when the topic concerns the brown skin that he lives in.

But more than that, I want these letters to be a testament of a mother’s love for her son and of a sister’s love for the body of Christ. Because when I speak about these topics, I want to hold my brothers and sisters in the Lord close to my heart, as I do my own son—my own flesh and blood. They are my blood-bought family in Christ, redeemed by the God who took on flesh to save them.”

Beyond the Roles

Lisa Robinson Spencer

(ThM DTS), Executive Director of Local Colors

From Lisa’s article

Some thoughts on the church and racial reconciliation efforts

So when we talk about racial reconciliation efforts–whether it be a panel discussion, workshop, books, blog posts, the goal should be to create a more harmonious Christian fellowship that is centered in the work and person of Jesus Christ. I can honestly say that I’ve seen this at work in healthy and productive ways. When racial reconciliation efforts starting rising in the evangelical scene, this is what it was intended to be. As someone who has been invited to speak and write on these issues, have attended events where racial reconciliation something to be tackled, and engaged in numerous conversations, I am staunchly committed to keeping this goal so that Christ’s body is strengthened. Jesus broke down the walls of hostility but in our embodied experiences, we need to bring this truth to life for hostility that has been created.

 

Trillia Newbell

Acquisitions Editor at Moody Publishers

Author: United: Captured by God’s Vision for Diversity

Cover: United by Trillia Newbell

From United: Captured by God’s Vision for Diversity

“Perhaps it seems that the country is moving toward unity, but it’s a façade—just check your local news. And though our society may want to move on, we can’t, and neither can or should the church. Maybe our churches remain segregated simply because it’s comfortable with “our own.” (You won’t get far in this book before you’ll see that I believe ‘our own’ needs a new definition.)

But maybe it’s because diversity and racial issues are scary. Talking about race and racial reconciliation can be downright terrifying. No one wants to offend, and in our politically correct society, who would blame you? If you say the wrong thing, ask the wrong question, or call someone by the wrong name, will they be angry? Are you black or African-American? Chinese or Asian? Hispanic, Latino, or Mexican? This is an explosive topic, and sometimes it seems that the wisest course of action is to avoid it at all costs.

There is a richness in knowing—really knowing—someone who is different from you. I bet you have (or have had) a relationship in your life that confirms the truth of this. God thought it important to let us know in His Word that every tribe and tongue and nation would be present on the last day, worshiping together. Shouldn’t we desire to reflect the last day before He returns?”

 

Cover:Gay Girl, Good God

Jackie Hill-Perry,

Poet, Hip-Hop Artist, Author

Gay Girl: Good God

From Jackie’s article on “Gospel Diversity for the Next Generation” at The Gospel Coalition

“Show them what it looks like to be a peculiar people that belong to God. We don’t really belong to this country. We don’t really belong to a political party. We don’t belong even to our economic status. Heck, we don’t belong to this world. We are a people for his own possession.

And that’s what God has done. The next generation would follow in our footsteps and then they would come to realize that as they did, they were actually following Jesus, and not a God made in America’s image. They would come to see that as you set your mind on things above where Christ, he is seated at the right hand of God, the place he went after he did what was just and right, the seat he sat down on after dying and raising on behalf of people, that he died [to purchase] for himself [a people] from every tribe, tongue and nation. They would see that because you set your mind up there where he is, that they can, too.

When we set our eyes on Christ instead of setting our eyes on our fathers’ idols and everything else that keeps us from gospel diversity, you can be sure that is when we begin equipping the next generation for gospel diversity.”

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