The Hopeful Freedom of Belonging to God

The Hopeful Freedom of Belonging to God

This month, we’re focusing on freedom, especially considering how to live in the freedom for which Christ sets us free (See Galatians 5:1). Many of us live in a world that prioritizes autonomy, the freedom of self-rule. The battle cry of the 21st century may be best summed up by a phrase I used to hear my children say often to one another when they were young: “You’re not the boss of me!”

The Bible offers an unlikely route to freedom, telling us that belonging to God brings the freedom we really long for. The catechisers of Heidelberg espoused that our only comfort, our greatest comfort in life and in death, is knowing that we belong to our faithful Savior Jesus Christ. Today, enjoy this excerpt from The Waiting Room: 60 Meditations for Finding Peace & Hope in a Health Crisis and consider the freedom of belonging to God.

For we dont live for ourselves or die for ourselves. If we live, its to honor the Lord. And if we die, its to honor the Lord. So whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord. Romans 14:7-8, NLT

As I waited in a dimly-lit hospital hallway for our son to finish his first MRI—the one that followed the incidental discovery of a something on his brain, my mind turned to the first question from the Heidelberg Catechism: 

 What is your only comfort in life and in death?

I had pondered the answer just days before our son was diagnosed with a brain tumor. A slew of family members had suffered illness and loss: my mother, my father-in-law, and my uncle had all suffered significant health issues. As I prayed that the Lord would comfort my family members, I recalled the Heidelbergs proclamation of hope, based on Romans 14:7-8:

 My only comfort in life and in death is that I am not my own but belong to my faithful Savior Jesus Christ.”

How odd it seems at first that comfort comes from knowing that we dont belong to ourselves. In the twenty-first century, much emphasis is placed on our autonomy. We are taught to value the idea of not being owned or directed by anyone. 

And yet, as the apostle Paul explains in Romans 14:7, the assurance that we belong to the Lord eases our fears about life and death. Written into our very being is the basic need to belong. The good news of the gospel is that we do belong to a faithful and loving Savior who suffered so that we might have new life and eternal life. In Christ, whether we live or die, we honor the Lord. This reality brings us peace and comfort as we live in the uncertainty of the waiting room. 

Prayer

Lord, you are a loving and good Father who has claimed us as your own. Thank you for giving us your comfort as we wait – the knowledge that we and our precious ones belong to our faithful Savior Jesus Christ. Help us to be confident that whether we live or die, we do so for your glory. May that knowledge bring surpassing peace. In the name of your Son who died for us we pray, Amen. 

Further Encouragement:

Read 1 Corinthians 6:19-20; Job 12:10; Acts 17:27-28.

Read Heidelberg Catechism Question #1.

For Reflection: What brings you comfort as you endure a hard waiting season? 

A Good Read for Hard Times: The Waiting Room Devotional

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Two Crucial Questions for Recovery and Restoration

Two Crucial Questions for Recovery and Restoration

Hi Friends,

This week’s meditation, an excerpt from From Recovery to Restoration: 60 Meditations for Finding Peace & Hope in Crisis, reminds us that when we are running and hiding in the midst of difficulty, Jesus is always running after us. When he finds us, he asks us two key questions that are always important to consider. I hope this message offers hope to you or to someone you love today. 

Where have you come from, and where are you going? Genesis 16:8, ESV

When a massive wildfire has left us homeless, or an abusive boyfriend has left us loveless, when a co-worker’s betrayal has left us jobless, or a child’s unplanned pregnancy has left us speechless, we may feel like running away from our disastrous circumstances. If we run, we may end up in a wilderness, lonely and lost. The good news of the gospel is that Jesus himself meets us in that desolate place. 

Hagar knew the desperation of disastrous circumstances. Her mistress, Sarai, unable to conceive, decided to use a method common in her culture to produce an heir—she would give her maidservant to her husband. When Sarai’s plan worked and Hagar conceived, Hagar became proud and showed contempt to Sarai (Genesis 16:4). Sarai, in turn, “dealt harshly” with Hagar (Genesis 16:6), and Hagar fled—back to Egypt. During her flight, by a spring in the wilderness, Hagar was found by the angel of the Lord (Genesis 16:7).

Hagar’s story reminds us of how the angel of the Lord, or Jesus himself, meets us in our desperate flight from disastrous circumstances:

  • He finds us. He finds us because he hears our affliction, and he seeks us in our distress (Genesis 16:11, 13). He is the “God-who-sees,” the Jesus who is looking for us.
  • When he finds us, he treats us with grace and favor. The Lord may ask us two crucial questions which re-awaken our hearts to his kindness:
    • “Where have you come from?” (Genesis 16:8). This question re-orients us, asking us to remember how God has previously redeemed and rescued us.
    • “Where are you going” (Genesis 16:8)? Like Hagar, we often take off without considering where we are going, and we may end up in a land of sin and unbelief. The question “Where are you going?” draws us to hope, to imagine how God will restore in the midst of disaster.
  • The Lord calls us to return. Just as the angel of the Lord gave Hagar a hard command—to return home (where despite how we might see it, she would be provided for and even blessed), he calls us to come home to him and surrender to his plan and provision for our lives.
  • He makes a promise of fruitfulness. To Hagar, the angel of the Lord promises that he will multiply her offspring. To us, the Lord makes the same promise: as we return to him, he will continue to grow us, to mature us, and to multiply his kingdom through us. Indeed, through his work in us, he will restore others to himself.

 Dear friends, if you are fed up and feel like fleeing, pause for a moment and listen to the One who has already heard your cries. Return to him, and submit to him, and wait to see the story of restoration he will write through your disaster.

Prayer

Lord, Jesus,

Thank you for listening to our cries and for coming to find us. Help us to return to you and trust in you, even when we can’t see what you are doing.

In your preserving name, Amen.

Further Encouragement

Read Genesis 16.

Listen to “Who Is like Our God?” by Laura Story.

For Reflection

Spend fifteen minutes journaling about the two crucial questions, “Where have you come from” and “Where are you going?”

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A Prayer about Waiting for the King’s Return

A Prayer about Waiting for the King’s Return

Lord Jesus,

You are

the King of shalom,

the King of righteousness, 

the King of justice, 

the King of peace. 

How long until you return 

to make your face shine upon us, 

to restore us to yourself (Psalm 80:3)?

How long until you return 

to wipe away all tears (Revelation 21:4):

the tears of those who have been abused 

because of their skin color, 

the tears of those who have been abandoned 

by loved ones, 

the tears of those who have been afflicted 

by disease?

Even as we await your return, 

empower us to live your healing love 

into this hurting world.

In your restoring name we ask.

Amen.

Read Psalm 82; Psalm 80:3; Revelation 21:1-5.

A Prayer about Our Rescue in Distress

A Prayer about Our Rescue in Distress

Lord of Angel Armies,

When we are hard-pressed on every side (2 Cor. 4:8-12), 

may we cry out to you.

With you on our side, 

whom shall we fear (Psalm 118:6)?

With you as our helper, 

what can man do to us (Psalm 118:6-7)?

With you as our refuge, 

what human would we trust in (Psalm 118:8)?

When we feel utterly defeated by human foes, 

may we remember that the evil one, 

who hates us fiercely, 

has already succumbed to defeat 

by Christ our Savior. (Psalm 118:7). 

In the name of our friend Jesus we pray. Amen.

Read Psalm 118:1-29.

A Prayer about Daring to Hope

A Prayer about Daring to Hope

God of Hope, 

I confess, as lovely as every word in this verse is, 

it’s often hard to hope.

Stories marked by earthly hopes 

disappointed 

often tamp down our hope. 

I pray for myself and for my friends 

who may feel the same way:

By the power of your Holy Spirit, 

transform our skeptical hearts into hearts 

that trust in our God of hope.

Transform our impatient hearts into hearts 

that wait eagerly for the glorious work

our God of hope will do in us and in others.

As you transform our hearts, 

fill us with your joy—

the capacity to enjoy you and enjoy the wonder-full story 

you are writing in this world and in our lives.

As you transform our hearts, 

fill us with your peace—

the capacity to rest in you and to believe 

that you are writing a new story of wholeness, harmony, and unity.

Finally, as you transform us and fill us with your joy and peace, 

may our hope spill over into every crack and crevice of our lives 

and the lives of those around us, 

sprouting forth in bright blossoms of new creation glory.

In Jesus’ hope-giving name. Amen. 

Read Romans 15:1-13. 

A Prayer about Weakness

A Prayer about Weakness

Lord,

I confess, I don’t like being weak at all. 

You say that weakness is the Christian’s way, 

but I was born and raised in America, 

by strong people who taught me to work hard and be tough. 

Not only that, but I’m afraid much of what I’ve observed in church 

suggests that we should be strong as steel and stoic as statues. 

And yet, you say that the way to be strong is to be weak. 

You say you will make us into people 

who are “content with weaknesses, insults, 

hardships, persecutions, and calamities” (2 Corinthians 12:10). 

Help us, by your grace, to grasp the paradox. 

May we cling to our crucified Savior, 

who though he was God, 

took on the weakness of human flesh. 

Wrap us in the strong embrace of our risen and ascended Savior, 

who for the joy of making us your children endured the shame of the cross.

Send us into the world, 

weak and frail as we are, 

to invite others to join us 

in the only weakness that could ever strengthen us.

In Jesus’ strong name. Amen.

Read 2 Corinthians 12:1-10.